BooLala wrote:

Firstly I'm sorry I've not replied to anyones msgs, I will soon as I can.
Anyways, basically my mate has been on a vibe all week. Then **** hit the fan, literally. He's just found out and been shown a photo of his girl in London with her new man and he's really fuming(were from the UK) I'm struggling on what to say to him or anyways to calm him down. I've told him about my girl being engaged to her ex and then I got her back but nothings working.
He really is flipping out. I need some advice on what to do. He loves her more than anything but I feel helpless for him. Urgent advice please

I've come to realize people who are extremely emotional won't listen much. I would take him to work out and talk to him let him release all the motions out before n remind him that current reality is from the past and if you could get your girl who was ENGAGED to another man he can easily get his girl back. I would think your situation was a bit more dire. It's all about reactions to what the universe gives. He needs to release the negative before trying to get her. I hope that could be something useful maybe you can come to a better idea based off that

How long are the two seperated? Maybe he needs just a bit time to get the breakup out of his system. I can't speak for anyone but I know for myself that it is impossible for me to get an ex back with LoA right after the breakup. I need time to heal.
You are the living evidence that no situation is hopeless and LoA works every time if you use it correctly. But you first have to get to the place where you can use it correctly and that needs time and discipline.

lar019 wrote:

I'm not saying he wasn't doing well, or better. He was receiving signs; which are awesome...it's progress. But signs are like distance signs on the road that you see when you're travelling to another city - just because you see the sign that says London 100KM away - doesn't mean you reached your destination! lol. Signs are simply there to keep going, keep getting higher and higher. I got signs at that point too; but then I'd see a pic of my guy with his girl, and everything would drop too.

My point is...I think there's still negativity in his vibration that needs to released. Will he do a meditation, or maybe take a nap? I find those kinds of things just help with calming down, and stop freaking out. And then maybe he'll find more clarity and ability in getting back on to the ladder and out of the mud.  

Personally I think he's full of anger and hurt from being cut off still and seeing that picture has thrown him over the edge

I'm going to repeat what I said in your other thread- why are you getting yourself vibrationally entangled in someone else's business? Seriously- you keep begging for desperate advice "for a friend" and I'm not suggesting you ditch your friend- but I'm ABSOLUTELY CERTAIN that your friend doesn't need YOU going down in flames of drama with them. It's so dramatic, and it's really unnecessary. I'm not sure why, as the powerful creator you say you are- you continue to come here asking for help for your friend.. It means you are also way out of alignment- and you know how to fix that already, right? If i were you I'd be focussing entirely on WHY I CREATE SUCH DRAMATIC FRIENDSHIPS WITH TOTALLY MISALIGNED PEOPLE. Better place to start than trying to fix everyone else's problems, don't you think?

Anyways my mate has calmed down now. Took him out with couple of other mates and got drunk, we had a wkd night. Also he sees his girls name a lot, its a common name, but he believes its the universe showing him what he's going for. Also I got him to read someone's story off here, about a guy who had a nasty breakup in Dec and she got with someone else then he did few different methods. She broke up from her fella and now there talking again...
So my mates happyish now lol.