Cherished is right you sound like you may need to work on yourself a bit more and have some confidence it will work out. Nothing works when it's negative. You know that saying "positive vibes equal a positive life" you never heads it the oppsite. You need to believe it won't work if you say "I think loa is fake and worried it won't work" just like a genie 'your wish is my command'

lemon wrote:

Cherished is right you sound like you may need to work on yourself a bit more and have some confidence it will work out. Nothing works when it's negative. You know that saying "positive vibes equal a positive life" you never heads it the oppsite. You need to believe it won't work if you say "I think loa is fake and worried it won't work" just like a genie 'your wish is my command'

I'm really not 100% convinced of the LoA... it's more of a "I have nothing to lose" thing in my case... I'm not religious or spiritual at all, really, so I'm naturally VERY skeptical...

And cherished, I appreciate you trying to help, but you're sounding VERY condescending/sarcastic. 
Thank you, but please don't be that way, if I'm reading you correctly. I'm really not having a very happy day. Rather depressed, thanks...

I just can't 100% believe, nor can I get into the right mindset. I'm trying very hard...

ShootingStar wrote:

I didn't read all of this thread, but word of warning from a girls perspective: the worst vibe to get from a guy is a vibe of 'if I don't have you, my life is worthless, I'm worthless, you are the only thing that gives me meaning... You literally have the responsibility of my happiness, purpose, existence. ..' Just no person can deal with that. But then the most attractive vibe is: 'I'm a man who has a life purpose, I have my dreams and goals and I also have space in my life to love a woman, and I know what I want and right now and possibly forever more if you say yes, it's you' not arrogantly but subtly and confidently. I think men like being needed more while women like being wanted more. I hate being needed a lot, I like to be the icing on the cake but not the base of the cake. So when you're getting her back, stir away from showing off a vibe of needing her, dont appeal to her maternal instincts of that obligation of taking care of you, appeal to her goddess side of being seen as attractive. You don't need her, you don't, you want her.

God ******* damn. I've already told her I "NEED" her and I "can't live without her" ****. I'm defnitely looking super needy... now what?! I mean, she can't just forget about htat? That's how I've acted this whole damn year towards her.

lemon wrote:

Cherished wrote:

lemon wrote:

Cherished is right you sound like you may need to work on yourself a bit more and have some confidence it will work out. Nothing works when it's negative. You know that saying "positive vibes equal a positive life" you never heads it the oppsite. You need to believe it won't work if you say "I think loa is fake and worried it won't work" just like a genie 'your wish is my command'

 
He's certain he's totally confident.. So it's not that..... 💜

I meant confident in the belief of loa. Cause he said he wasn't sure if it was real. That is what I meant. Sorry for the miscommunication. Idk maybe it won't matter I would just wonder if that could cause some resistance for him.

If anything that's exactly what would cause resistance. I can't force myself to believe it. I want to with all my heart, but I can't fully. I have a sense of doubt even if I do start trusting in it...