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Day three of the 25 day challenge! I bought Veronica's book, The 25 day Challenge. It gives you something to focus on day to day exercises to guide you!! It is amazing because sometimes I feel lost and need that little push. Anyway I am shaking so badly as I am writing this, because he text me!!!! The last time we talked it was so ugly!! We have said everything you can imagine to each other. And I did not just get an I'm sorry. I got a heartfelt I'm sorry message, he was reaching out to me. We are the make-up break-up type, which I swear every relationship I have been in has been, until I realized I am attracting this to me. So instead of trying to make a way for us to talk or to meet up I said, thank you, I appreciate the apology. I do not want to push him away and I still have so much that I need to work on within myself. I am very insecure, and sometimes I idolize my partner. I am getting to where I know that I am good enough! They would be lucky to have me! He is lucky I responded to him! I am in the mindset that he is testing the waters, and though I am extremely happy, he is gonna have to work harder because I AM WORTH IT!!!
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There you go girl.. you are absolutely the best !!
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wow.. congrats... i am doing this for last few days.. i don't know exact days...i lost count.. but your story inspired me again...thanks for sharing...Β
have a great day...
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Awesome!Β
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Yay!! I love stories like these, congrats!! We can all do it!
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Well sorry I did not update last night. He wanted to come over to talk. Since he came to me, I let him. Things went good. He wants to be together! My problem is that I need to learn forgiveness. I'm hurt. I need to let the past go, and it's painful. I know I can create a more beautiful future. He said everything that I wanted him to say. He wants a future with me, he wants me for the long run. It felt amazing to hear it. I'm still doing the 25 day challenge because I need it for me! Except it's real now, he is here. I need to imagine this beautiful relationship, not the problematic one we had. Attracting back has always been way easier than maintaining for me. I have been hurt in the past so I doubt things a lot or sometimes think them too good to be true. I will get through it this time and it will be amazing! I'm rooting for all of you, and I'm glad I could inspire hope like a lot of you have done for me. We can do this!!!
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Havefaith91 wrote:
Well sorry I did not update last night. He wanted to come over to talk. Since he came to me, I let him. Things went good. He wants to be together! My problem is that I need to learn forgiveness. I'm hurt. I need to let the past go, and it's painful. I know I can create a more beautiful future. He said everything that I wanted him to say. He wants a future with me, he wants me for the long run. It felt amazing to hear it. I'm still doing the 25 day challenge because I need it for me! Except it's real now, he is here. I need to imagine this beautiful relationship, not the problematic one we had. Attracting back has always been way easier than maintaining for me. I have been hurt in the past so I doubt things a lot or sometimes think them too good to be true. I will get through it this time and it will be amazing! I'm rooting for all of you, and I'm glad I could inspire hope like a lot of you have done for me. We can do this!!!
Girl! Do a happy dance for now, he came to you. I would be happy as heck when it happens for me. I know what you mean about forgivness but hey remember the past is gone. It's time for a new relationship. If anything I would learn some forgivness mantras or meditation. If anything not for him but for yourself. It will lift some of that heaviness off your shoulders. But seriously that's awesome I can't wait to write my success story soon!
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Havefaith91 wrote:
Well sorry I did not update last night. He wanted to come over to talk. Since he came to me, I let him. Things went good. He wants to be together! My problem is that I need to learn forgiveness. I'm hurt. I need to let the past go, and it's painful. I know I can create a more beautiful future. He said everything that I wanted him to say. He wants a future with me, he wants me for the long run. It felt amazing to hear it. I'm still doing the 25 day challenge because I need it for me! Except it's real now, he is here. I need to imagine this beautiful relationship, not the problematic one we had. Attracting back has always been way easier than maintaining for me. I have been hurt in the past so I doubt things a lot or sometimes think them too good to be true. I will get through it this time and it will be amazing! I'm rooting for all of you, and I'm glad I could inspire hope like a lot of you have done for me. We can do this!!!
Hey there!! You're doing great! I think you may need to create a little space so you can continue to work on yourself and know that you are happy with or without him. It will give you strength and confidence and not allow you to be so dependent on the relationship for your happiness. Try and do more things that make YOU happy!! Have love and joy in your heart and send it out to him. The Universe will give more of that back to you and help you become the confident, happy person you are meant to be!! Keep up the good work!!
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Thank you guys so much! I definitely do need to keep up the vibe that I can be happy either way. I think halfway through my day today my vibes changed. For once I was not worried about him or the relationship. I just enjoyed living today. I am also working on feeling better about my job, so it's nice to work on manifesting other things to take my mind off it. One day at a time. I truly want to be the best person I can be. I am happier with myself, and that is amazing to me!! I really hope to hear your success stories soon!
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congrats! It's great to know about your story! I believe we can all do it!Β