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Thanks guys. I just hope she comes back 
I'm REALLY scared she's gone for good. She's that kinda person ((
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Thanks Sam!! Thanks everyone!
So, update. I called her and asked how she was doing. She picked up the phone, etc. She asked me if I wanted to grab coffee tomorrow... I'm so confused at her actions... lol. But this is good? I guess...? I then told her I have to get clothes for orientation (new job) and I asked if she'd like to tag along, she said she will. So I'm just really confused....
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It's not bad but why did you call her? I would give her time to miss you
I know. By she invited ME out to get coffee.
I asked her, "so can we skype sometime soon? I miss that" and she replied, "we'll see", and then immediately offered coffee tomorrow 
That's a good thing! I just don't understand her...
maybe I should.. I'm just scared if I do that she'll walk away or think I'm just not interested anymore. If you saw my last thread (you did, didn't you?) she showed MAJOR signs of interest. IDK. Maybe she's just still hurt over the things I've done...
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Right I did and she did but the pattern is her going back and forth. It's good her inviting you for coffee . But you notice you are not really trusting loa? You have fear and I know we all do but that is doubt something we all try to get past. If you're gonna go to coffee go but without any big expectations. Just make it a good time.
So what should I do? :O
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- she offered to hang out with a guy... who she knows is IN LOVE with her... that sounds like a good thing :O I'd be quite opposed to hanging out with someone who I know LOVES me...
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Thanks so much.
I'm going to go hang out with her now. Wish me luck!!! I'll update if anything interesting happens Gah I want to kiss her again...
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TL;DR; we fought, she has ABSOLUTELY no feelings for me, she does't reach out to people, we're not talking from here on out, she keeps telling me to move on, and she won't contact me.
I don't know what to do. ****. ****. ****. **** **** **** **** **** FUUUUUUUUUUUUUUCK!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1
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TL;DR; we fought, she has ABSOLUTELY no feelings for me, she does't reach out to people, we're not talking from here on out, she keeps telling me to move on, and she won't contact me.
I don't know what to do. ****. ****. ****. **** **** **** **** **** FUUUUUUUUUUUUUUCK!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1
IGNORE CURRENT REALITY IGNORE CURRENT REALITY. May I remind you that people always say things they don't mean especially in a heated argument!! Do not give up. I have seen so many success stories where at one point the other person said they would never talk to the other person again or have feelings for them again...and what do you know THEY ALWAYS COME BACK AROUND!!! keep that in mind!! xoxo
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TL;DR; we fought, she has ABSOLUTELY no feelings for me, she does't reach out to people, we're not talking from here on out, she keeps telling me to move on, and she won't contact me.
I don't know what to do. ****. ****. ****. **** **** **** **** **** FUUUUUUUUUUUUUUCK!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1IGNORE CURRENT REALITY IGNORE CURRENT REALITY. May I remind you that people always say things they don't mean especially in a heated argument!! Do not give up. I have seen so many success stories where at one point the other person said they would never talk to the other person again or have feelings for them again...and what do you know THEY ALWAYS COME BACK AROUND!!! keep that in mind!! xoxo
Yeah that's not going to happen. She's made it quite clear even after things cooled down and we were "joking around" that she actually has no romantic feelings for me, and she doesn't reach out to people. This case is different. She means what she says. She has no feelings. She's not angry with me or mad or anything. She just doesn't have any feelings for me. And she's not the kind of person to reach out to ANYONE. I'm just ready to die. Really. I just want to not live.
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She was distant because she knows I like her, We were supposed to go shopping, I don't have a phone, she looked around and left, got mad for a bit, I was waiting there, I called her, we exchanged harsh words, and went into the relationship talk once things mellowed down.
She's not coming back... she's not the kind to reach out to others. She has no feelings for me.
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