Veronica's Law of Attraction Forum » It works! But why on other people first?

SydneysMommy · 5/16/2016 6:00 am

OK so I have so much happening o can't seem to focus or harness my magical powers now..lol

I called it that because it seems like it.

All I wanted was a solid, loving, passionate and adventurous relation back with my daughters father...HOWEVER I am getting back two men from my past that are RELENTLESSLY pursuing me. One is married and its on the rocks, at first I figured he missed our friendship but after weeks of calls I feel like I'm dating him when I don't call and he is frustrated...he is married for goodness sakes universe...lol!

Second one was literally my first adult crush. We are 11 years apart. He finally sees me as an adult and I'm 33. He is very successful and charming and says all the right things...even WANTS to include my kid in his life BUT I'm so not there as I once was in the past.

I FINALLY got a job interview from a Texas recruiting firm. I have been trying to focus so hard on that...now I got to figure out how to get there from Maryland and make it back to really focus on moving.

But then there's still my love. I saw him Friday and he looked handsome as hell. He got a cute hair cut I suggested and walked in looking like a chocolate beef cake. I didn't see him all weekend and I was a slight bothered and the thoughts of maybe he went on a date that's why he got a new cut began flashing around and I shouted...QUIT IT and just like that the thought was gone.

I've convinced myself the move to Texas is bigger than our reuniting. So I focus there. But I wonder if that's why he isn't full force as much this past weekend as he was before...and is that why these other guys are attacking me romantically ;)

I trust things are working in perfect order...but I read a post about pulling back a bit and shaking things up...I like that idea...and I love what's happening, I just wanted reassurance if I'm still doing it right if I put something else in my focus...does the other take over and work without or within the alignment.

Veronica said in a video that the universe only gives what you ask or ficus on so be cautious of what you're asking for because once its ready to deliver you wanna make sure it's the true intent. He us still my true intent but cone on..new job, new city, new home, new sitter for my kid....that's so much I need to focus on, agree?

Any advice or proof positive story is much appreciated!

LightBeing · 5/16/2016 9:02 am

First of all, congrats on the interview!
I think it might be that it works in other people first because there is less resistance. We're not blocking the signal by doubting (which is a thing we all might do from time to time, when it's something that is important to us, but we're trying to manifest).

I remeber Neville's wife didn't want to marry him and actually moved to another state (!) but he still managed to get her. She ended up being his wife. He visualized sleeping in the same room with her at night (seperate beds! lol). So sure, anything is possible. Whether it is possible or not is all a matter of perception. Like Abe says- it's as easy to create a castle as a button. And you're doing great! I think, IMO, it's ok to focus on several things together. Maybe try to combine them in your visualizations, if you can. If you think you can, then you can.

SydneysMommy · 5/16/2016 9:21 am

I totally listened to that piece about Neville and the separate beds one. So funny someone else picked up on it.

I thank you for encouraging the reality that it's ok to work on more than one goal at a time!

Oasiscalm · 5/16/2016 11:05 am

I think from memory Neville wanted to marry his second wife, but was unable to get a divorce from his first wife as she had moved to another state and refused to give him a divorce.

He didn't let that bother him he continued to visualise himself as married to the second wife. And through a turn of events related to his first wife, she granted him a divorce and he went on to marry the second wife.

lemon · 5/16/2016 4:29 pm

See I am wondering something..I been doing rs and visuals for a good while now and the only people I attracted for a hot minute was guys who were like superficially into me (like talked to me only cause of my looks) but no real exes. Is that a concern I should have? Lol not that I'm doubting loa but I always see people say they attracted other exes

lemon · 5/17/2016 10:19 pm

Hey! Thank you for answering! And I would say I only do it when I enjoy it and for probably on and off for a week and a half. I don't force myself to do it if I'm exhausted or don't feel like it. And it's not like I want to get my other exes back at all, just was curious. There was a period way back a while ago I had two exes coming after me but I wasn't even practicing loa. Lol

I honestly believe in my heart the person I want my (last boyfriend) is with me now (living as if) just on a long trip and I don't feel sad or anxious or worried. I used to wake up anxious and like idk if I can do this. But lately it flipped. I feel calm and happy and eager(in a good way). I am just happy with focusing on being happy no matter what. I was just curious. I visualize and meditate easily seeing what my vibrating reality is like, just it's radio silence current day, but I know current reality is an echo (love that post that said it) so I'm not worried or like sad. I have been so many amazing signs and synchs that there's no denying the universe is listening. Even today my total at a supermarket was 11:11 and when I got into my car my favorite zac brown band song was playing (when I first left my apartment I said if zac brown plays which is our band, I know he is thinking of me) and I was so thankful. I'm actually loving my journey to getting to know my source and being a better vibration for the perfect relationship I (have)with my boyfriend.

I love my affirmations I say to myself and I been doing Lanie's method now for the past few days in a row and I feel better about it than before. So to me that's an improvement. I'm also working on my career and school which I know was part of the past issues but it's also more for myself cause come on, girl has to have a career. So if you or the lovely cherished, cotton, or Sydney's mom who seems like she's getting in the field goal have any other wordly wisdom that would be amazing )

Oh jeeze this turned into a story, sorry I just got excited from reading Sydneysmom story and cotton 's post.lol

SydneysMommy · 5/18/2016 8:38 am

lemon wrote:
Hey! Thank you for answering! And I would say I only do it when I enjoy it and for probably on and off for a week and a half. I don't force myself to do it if I'm exhausted or don't feel like it. And it's not like I want to get my other exes back at all, just was curious. There was a period way back a while ago I had two exes coming after me but I wasn't even practicing loa. Lol

I honestly believe in my heart the person I want my (last boyfriend) is with me now (living as if) just on a long trip and I don't feel sad or anxious or worried. I used to wake up anxious and like idk if I can do this. But lately it flipped. I feel calm and happy and eager(in a good way). I am just happy with focusing on being happy no matter what. I was just curious. I visualize and meditate easily seeing what my vibrating reality is like, just it's radio silence current day, but I know current reality is an echo (love that post that said it) so I'm not worried or like sad. I have been so many amazing signs and synchs that there's no denying the universe is listening. Even today my total at a supermarket was 11:11 and when I got into my car my favorite zac brown band song was playing (when I first left my apartment I said if zac brown plays which is our band, I know he is thinking of me) and I was so thankful. I'm actually loving my journey to getting to know my source and being a better vibration for the perfect relationship I (have)with my boyfriend.

I love my affirmations I say to myself and I been doing Lanie's method now for the past few days in a row and I feel better about it than before. So to me that's an improvement. I'm also working on my career and school which I know was part of the past issues but it's also more for myself cause come on, girl has to have a career. So if you or the lovely cherished, cotton, or Sydney's mom who seems like she's getting in the field goal have any other wordly wisdom that would be amazing )

Oh jeeze this turned into a story, sorry I just got excited from reading Sydneysmom story and cotton 's post.lol

Hey man, that's what we are doing here right? Sometimes, Someone elses post shakes things up for me too. I am no way outside of the relam of needing to learn more.

But how is the Lnie's method going? I hear lots of people have major success there. I think I may try it if you don't mind sharing.

LightBeing · 5/18/2016 11:50 am

SydneysMommy wrote:
I totally listened to that piece about Neville and the separate beds one. So funny someone else picked up on it.

I thank you for encouraging the reality that it's ok to work on more than one goal at a time!

Sure, no problem, love

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