How long had it been since you have spoken to him? I think you should definitely text him back but keep it casual and simple and don't over think it and continue to let him initiate it!

Carisza wrote:

That's amazing <3 Congratulations! Now keep doing what you were doing. Be positive, be kind, visualize your perfect relationship and don't try to force the situation! Let him lead the way

Thank you so much for your kind advice I will follow your advice! Have a  wonderful day!!
 

LaughBella14 wrote:

I am so happy for you!!! Can you share with us what you did loa wise that you think brought him around? Especially after a period of no contact. I'm not familiar with your story, so I'm sorry if you have spoken about it before!!

Thank you. Sure I am happy to share my story with you I think actually the law of detachment really helped me. I never understood what does it mean "let it go" but I finally got it and he kinda came back to me. At the beginning, I was so obsessed with LOA. I did everything that I could possibly do a day like visualising, scripting, meditation, and even RS! I'm not saying that doing those things are bad but only when you're 100% positive and feel good about it. Otherwise, It's just better not doing it. I did those activities every single day. When I wake up, I started my day with visualisation and ended my day with RS. But it just made me obsessed over my ex boyfirend.

Few weeks ago, I was crying. "I've been such a good girl for a month focusing what I want, doing LOA things. I also kept myself very positive. I swear I never cried and WHY it doesn't work for me? Why the universe doesn't care about me? Why it didn't manifest yet? I did everything that I could possibly do. This is so unfair. Why people just get what they want overnight and I've been doing this for a month without complaining. WHY I don't get the only thing what I really want?" That was my question. I felt so depressed and doubtful. That day, after crying I finally realised this is not working because I am too into it. It shows the universe that I am desprate and needy. And obviously I was forcing myself doing things that I don't enjoy so it was unplesant. The universe knows I am not happy about it. So I stopped everything.

After that day I felt very nice. I started having fun doing things make me happy. I could enjoy my day without my ex.  It made me confident. But it doesn't mean that I gave up. I know that he's coming back to me and we're getting back together. This is what I told myself , my mum and my friends. My friends were very nagative and told me just f**k him but who cares. I love him. Lately, I felt like it's about time. I don't know why I felt like he will call me or text me very soon. I just did feel like it. And yesterday it happened like magic! BOOM! He texted me and told me exactly what I wanted to hear like he is sorry, he misses me and he couldn't stop thinking of me. etc. I was very happy and grateful. I finally understand how it works. Detachment is so important. I did no contact because I wanted to let him reach out for me. I was confident at some point he will reach out for me. And he did  I hope my story help you. Have a good day/night!