Hi- So I recently found out about LOA and discovered Veronica's videos. I have no doubt that LOA works but I am SO nervous to try this with another person. I feel like there's no guarantee when another human being is involved as they can decide to come back or not regardless of how positive you are. I want to commit to trying this but I know I am failing as I keep going back and forth sending conflicting messages. Basically my boyfriend broke up with me because we had been fighting a lot for a month. We are in college and we will be apart for 3 months over the summer. He said he didn't want to break up but he didn't see how it would work now or ever. However, he also said he'd always love me and there's not a day in his life he wouldn't be attracted to me. He offered to text me a few times over the summer but I said no I didn't want to be his friend. So he said okay, let's see where we stand with each other in the fall. I asked if that meant he would consider getting back with me. He said yes somewhat hesitantly and then I left. We haven't talked since. I'm scared because I feel like maybe he was saying these things to be nice and I have my hopes up too high that we will get back together. I wanted to try visualizations and acting as though I already have him back but I'm also scared that if it doesn't happen I will have wasted the entire summer in this fantasy world I've created for myself and I will not have healed emotionally at all. Has anyone else experienced these thoughts/feelings? What did you do to get past these conflicts? I'd love some advice! Thanks