For some reason I'm torturing myself today replaying over in my head him telling me about that girl he kissed and how he's felt an attraction to her for a while.

It's breaking my heart.

alston326 wrote:

rosetinted wrote:

For some reason I'm torturing myself today replaying over in my head him telling me about that girl he kissed and how he's felt an attraction to her for a while.

It's breaking my heart.

Well, you need to cease and desist immediately, because you're giving energy and power to that "other thing". It's not the reality you want, so start writing what you DO want and what you KNOW will be and already IS. I also found that Veronica is really helpful with these things. I paid for some email coaching (it's really affordable) and I go back through her emails for encouragement. It immediately puts me in a great state of mind. Think of yourself as your own client, if you're doing energy readings. Maybe pretend you are helping someone, then take your advice. What would you tell someone else in your position??

That's very good advice. I'm gonna quote you in my loa notebook x

HEY GUYS!

So he's back soon no idea what official date time where etc. But the closer it draws now I'm FREAKING OUT a bit again.

The past few weeks I've been good considering. I only get that ache of missing him occasionally, I've been doing RS lanie's method every day almost and it helps raise my mood! But I've noticed right after I will get some weird event that drags me down? For instance right after twice I've had texts from people asking 'have you heard from him?? Not at all?!'

And I'm like. NOPE. No sir...

But he's on a man adventure definitely has no phone accessibility in the wilderness or wherever he's floating around, so even though a few days ago I DID cave and text him saying I hoped he was having a lovely time. That's it. One message in three weeks for the guy who told me I text too much. So I'm almost proud of myself for that though I shouldn't have done it... He didn't reply anyway but I just have a feeling he either can't with no money right now or hasn't seen it.

I didn't feel sad or worried waiting for a reply. Weirdly. BUT I'm suddenly panicking he will run to this girl he hooked up with as mentioned once he's back, they live close, when I want him knocking on my door. I was even thinking omg what if she's on this forum what if she's trying to manifest him too!?!?! Argh.

Interestingly I started worrying about this a few days ago as his return is approaching and I'm scared of something happening, nothing happening, I've also had money issues so mainly been busy with my work and creative stuff... But since worrying...

I NOW HAVE FULL ON FLU

It's a beautiful day here and I'm aching all over with a fever and probably delirious so excuse any spelling mistakes.

Kind of wondering how to prepare now. I have so many things I want us to do, things I want him to say and things I want to happen. But part of me also knows I have to be at peace with whatever happens... In order to make what I want... Happen...

I'm so excited to see him but scared it might be weird since professing my feelings to him..

So might just have to runaway, change my name, start a new life... The only logical solution, right ;)

I'm just kidding. But yeah I am scared of her or anyone stealing him away, scared she's doing the same tricks I am, scared I've imagined our connection for years and people are right about me being overly dreamy living on another planet. People keep telling me to 'face reality'

In a weird limbo mood at the moment.

Also wondering if anyone else has lanie's new meditations? I've done the cord cutting type one a few times but mainly just pussy whip. Seems contradictory to be cutting ties while building a connection? But I think I kind of get it.

May be my fever talking bleurgh! My dad brought me soup round and I said 'I knew it would turn into flu I made it happen I could feel it' he was like... 'People don't MAKE things happen...' I was like...... 😏

Any love support or advice throw it right at me

❤️❤️❤️

alston326 wrote:

Hey girl!!! Okay, first of all please don't give energy to your fear of other girls or the one you speak of. Just think of her as being a tool to get him back. He will realize she's nothing like you and that you're the only one for him!!

I'm sorry you have the flu and I hope you get better soon! During this time, please just take care of yourself first and heal. Once you're healed, remember the Universe already knows your desire, so please let it handle the work for you. Your job is to just relax, be happy, send loving vibes to him and watch your manifestation unfold. Anything and everything is possible if you believe it!! I'm telling you from experience it totally works!!! You can do this!!!

Thanks lovie the word tool really helped me there!

I think I'm just also thinking of times in the past I'd let go of manifestations... And they didn't show up... Very doubting confused energy around my head at the moment X

Lanie Stevens wrote:

rosetinted wrote:

HEY GUYS!

So he's back soon no idea what official date time where etc. But the closer it draws now I'm FREAKING OUT a bit again.

The past few weeks I've been good considering. I only get that ache of missing him occasionally, I've been doing RS lanie's method every day almost and it helps raise my mood! But I've noticed right after I will get some weird event that drags me down? For instance right after twice I've had texts from people asking 'have you heard from him?? Not at all?!'

And I'm like. NOPE. No sir...

But he's on a man adventure definitely has no phone accessibility in the wilderness or wherever he's floating around, so even though a few days ago I DID cave and text him saying I hoped he was having a lovely time. That's it. One message in three weeks for the guy who told me I text too much. So I'm almost proud of myself for that though I shouldn't have done it... He didn't reply anyway but I just have a feeling he either can't with no money right now or hasn't seen it.

I didn't feel sad or worried waiting for a reply. Weirdly. BUT I'm suddenly panicking he will run to this girl he hooked up with as mentioned once he's back, they live close, when I want him knocking on my door. I was even thinking omg what if she's on this forum what if she's trying to manifest him too!?!?! Argh.

Interestingly I started worrying about this a few days ago as his return is approaching and I'm scared of something happening, nothing happening, I've also had money issues so mainly been busy with my work and creative stuff... But since worrying...

I NOW HAVE FULL ON FLU

It's a beautiful day here and I'm aching all over with a fever and probably delirious so excuse any spelling mistakes.

Kind of wondering how to prepare now. I have so many things I want us to do, things I want him to say and things I want to happen. But part of me also knows I have to be at peace with whatever happens... In order to make what I want... Happen...

I'm so excited to see him but scared it might be weird since professing my feelings to him..

So might just have to runaway, change my name, start a new life... The only logical solution, right ;)

I'm just kidding. But yeah I am scared of her or anyone stealing him away, scared she's doing the same tricks I am, scared I've imagined our connection for years and people are right about me being overly dreamy living on another planet. People keep telling me to 'face reality'

In a weird limbo mood at the moment.

Also wondering if anyone else has lanie's new meditations? I've done the cord cutting type one a few times but mainly just pussy whip. Seems contradictory to be cutting ties while building a connection? But I think I kind of get it.

May be my fever talking bleurgh! My dad brought me soup round and I said 'I knew it would turn into flu I made it happen I could feel it' he was like... 'People don't MAKE things happen...' I was like...... 😏

Any love support or advice throw it right at me

❤️❤️❤️

Actually when you cut the cord you are taking your power back.  It helps you to not be as attached to the outcome when you do the Pussy Whip meditation and it keeps you in control.  Also, he will feel the disconnection and will miss it.  If you stay attached to someone when they aren't there it can be hard to move forward.  Trust me, it is a good thing to detach first and then use the "secret technique' on him.  :-)

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Hey Lanie! Was hoping you'd answer that ;) I was worried it would cut him off! do you think it's a good idea to do that one before the PW one every time?

I find the one where you speak the words he will say really helpful as in the past that's where I've got distracted and thought omg why can't I imagine him saying these things...

I've only been doing your meditations the few weeks he's been away, while he was here I'd do the mini sessions as in your books running into the bathroom kinda thing to do them. He was always very receptive to them so I'm interested to see if these longer more intense sessions will have a different effect on him.

Haven't heard from him yet but.... Thank you guys for your good vibes you've pepped me up already.

I think I manifested myself having flu to have a break from worrying lol.

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