ShootingStar wrote:

Also, to be fair , there are countless people in the world who went through a terrible break up and got over it and got back into a positive vibration but that ex didn't come back to them, you don't need to learn about loa to be using it, because we are all using it . In those cases, it really was a case of bad fitting vibrations. There are countless people who did have their exs come back to them too, like me, when they really didn't want them anymore, so you see it's a bit dangerous to tell people something is a certainty if they are not able to apply the advice really correctly and come out with no results...

I also have another friend who actually was into LOA, found it originally to attract back an ex, and it's been 3 years since & she's totally over him, over the situation, forgave him, doesn't even think about him much, is completely happy and having fun and traveling and open to finding someone new to love, but he never came back. That was a huge confusing factor to me...I never understood why he didn't come back to her bc she really is happy & having fun & enjoying herself. I though, also found loa 3 years ago to attract back an ex. I didn't attract him back and in fact found somebody else (the ex I now came here for), but what is funny is that when me & my current ex broke up I asked the universe for the ex from 3 years ago to return bc I felt like he could help me to have fun & not feel so sad (we hadn't really spoken much in 3 years! Just hed sometimes follow and like pics of mine on social media but he was in and out of other relationships and I was in mine) and literally a week later he returned & now we talk every single day & I love it!!! The key is I wasn't attached to him coming back at all anymore, and it's funny to me how easily he came back in when I was chill about it when 3 years ago I couldn't get him to come back at all even though I manifested signs like crazy!

Yeah that makes sense to me!! But doesn't that cancel out the positive vibe thing?? Or could it be that when you are that determined for something..that you might be "acting as if" without really realizing it??? It's the only thing I can think of. The ex I speak of we were together for over 4 years. I was literally obsessed with him, & we fought like crazy bc of it. I was always afraid of him cheating on me, leaving me, whatever you name it, and while he did cheat on me after worrying about it so much, he still always stayed even tho I worried about him leaving the whole 4 years, & I think it's bc I had such a strong determination as I LOVE THIS GUY, HE IS MINE, ALL MINE - MINE MINE MINE. I was obsessive & serious about it lol. When he did actually leave, he still stayed around for many months, until we both got into new relationships around the same time.

LoveIsGod wrote:

What is PLOA forum?

Powerlawofattraction forum

I think you're missing the point of my post.

I am so confused!? Lol. Sometimes I don't know what to believe I know I want and deserve my love back and so that will be my reality and truth. I so appreciate everyone's opinions (: I think the best way to attract what you want and what you believe is to find those people who stands for what you believe. Lately I been getting confused with everyone's different opinions although it made me think and become open - minded. For example, I always talk and would go to Veronica, Cherished, BooLaLa and others who tell me it is possible no matter what, because if they can do it I can too! I think it comes down to what you believe and talking to those people who have the same belief to help you... If that makes sense. I know when I talk to other people on different loa forums or websites they say no you can't attract a specific person and all those things I don't want to hear always brings me down and make me feel like a fool. So I try to stay away from their beliefs and find people who support my believes like Cherished when I messaged her she gave me such good advice! (: