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So I know everyone has their own views and beliefs as far as how this universe does or does not work. However.. Aren't we practicing LOA?? I mean, I think when people join this forum, we are all well aware as to why we initially joined.. It's no secret why we all come here. With saying that I think it causes a lot of confusion for many when they hear all sorts of different views as to what LOA is and what is and is not possible with consciously using the law. Some say yes, some say no.. And it ends up being a vicious cycle of trying to figure out if yes I can or no I can't. With consderation to the fact that Veronica started this forum as a safe haven for many to come and begin this journey, I think it would be of benefit if we could all TRY to stick to what advice Veronica herself would offer. I love coming to this forum and soaking up all the wonderful knowledge that is offered, it just gets overwhelming to recieve contradictory advice depending on whom you are talking to.
Just a suggestion.. And I think it would really bring a whole lot more positive light as well β€οΈ
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I'm really not trying to ruffle any feathers.. I just know that ALOT of people left the PLOA forum for the exact reason of not being able to get consistent advice.
I believe if Veronica were to respond to each and every new post, I do believe that she would tell each and every one of us that YES we can attract ANYTHING that we desire .. Even the specifics
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That's fine, but there is absolutely nothing wrong with variety. And it really doesn't impact you at all if somebody places limitations on things. It only limits themselves. And that's perfectly ok.. And it's how we all manage to be individual and unique. As long as you know your own truth, then nobody else's is relevant to you. π
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I know youre right cherished.. I just want to see everyone succeed at all their wildest dreams and desires. I really did mean it out of love tho
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I know your intentions are from a place of love π
But I've seen it go both ways. I've seen many people attract back their love. And I've also done it myself, so I KNOW that you can absolutely do it. But there are others who don't believe that you can- and they will prove themselves completely right. And that's ok too! So those of you who truly want a specific person, and believe that it can be done.. In the absence of resistance and doubt, you will create that reality. Those of you who have heard it said that you CAN'T manifest specifically, that will be your experience. π
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To say anything is impossible is fundamentally wrong, because we live in a world of infinite possibility. I think the problem about telling someone 'you can have exactly what you want' can sound to some people who are in a very desperate place as a quick fix...so a lot of people stumble upon this forum and others because they're just looking for a solution to their problem which they are desperate about and then they take on the advice thinking 'if I just do this, I will get what I want ! If I think positive, I will get back my ex!' and Abraham and other teachers suggest that this mindset is the type of mindset that will kill your manifestation, because you are only doing the advice to achieve the desire from a desperate place. Many people have attracted back an ex from a desperate place, but I think what would be interesting to see is how long that relationship lasted afterwards....our minds are so powerful, we can create our own reality, but we can also self sabotage ourselves. There are lots of people who started applying advice based on the law of attraction when they were in a desperate place and nothing happened, even though they thought they were positive, they thought they had it all figured out and then get disheartened and even more depressed about their situation and themselves. I got my ex back countless times, but he left again and again and he's not here with me right now....because 'attracting' him back was easy, keeping him was the hard part. The laws of the inverse work in your favour, just sometimes you don't work in your favour...there's no point trying to fit a triangle in a square no matter how much you try or sometimes squeeze it in, if you and a specific person do not match vibrationally, it will never work out, unhappy marriages are created that way, so I feel that's why we can't have exactly who we want exactly the way we want them all the time, but I do believe we can give ourselves opportunities to see if we fit with a person through loa.
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Also, to be fair , there are countless people in the world who went through a terrible break up and got over it and got back into a positive vibration but that ex didn't come back to them, you don't need to learn about loa to be using it, because we are all using it . In those cases, it really was a case of bad fitting vibrations. There are countless people who did have their exs come back to them too, like me, when they really didn't want them anymore, so you see it's a bit dangerous to tell people something is a certainty if they are not able to apply the advice really correctly and come out with no results...
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Sorry, are you referring to me telling people something dangerous?
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Ah not at all but I have read a lot of sad stories from desperate people online who said they 'did everything they were told' to attract back their ex but it never transpired and they felt even more depressed than they were. These people were in a desperate place and they used false positive thinking because they were so desperate for their ex to return, but they never did the positive thinking to make themselves happy, they do it under the pretence that they think it will get their ex back to them and then when they're ex doesn't appear after some time, they feel really negative and depressed. They made their happiness conditional.. When it seems to really be the way that we only get ex's back when we become truly happy on our own and we pretty much forget that we want them back nearly, that's what Abraham preaches and why she never says to go specific without getting happy first..but desperate people who are truly desperate for their ex do not do that and they end up fixated on getting happy just for their ex and then very rarely end up getting their ex back or if they do, like me, the ex leaves again very quickly :/
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I can highlight probably 100 posts where I've stated emphatically that none of this will work unless your underlying vibration and chronic thought patterns change first. Basically every post I wrote will include the words "it all comes back to self-love."
Those people who have used this time as an opportunity to expand and evolve, have had tremendous success in attracting love back to them.