I believe so, mine was on the opposite side of the state, which isn't as drastic as opposite coasts,  but he would pass comments to me when we were first talking about how I wasn't exactly around the corner from where he lived.  I had meditated, and in fact all of the scenes in my head had to do with where I live, and the next thing I knew he got a job promotion that he was trying to get for 10 years, and that required him to start to work closer to me, not every day, he only travels  down this way once every two weeks, but that got him to start to like the surroundings down here, and the restaurants, and the next thing I knew he comes down here all the time now.  The funny thing is, he goes to visit those places where I would have scenes in my head about me and him, and it took me a while to realize that he has a pulling now to check out those places.  My story is weird, because I manifested him, and I lost him, and now I'm manifesting him back, but I know even though we're in no contact right now, he checks out those places and connects those places to me.  It's almost like he never liked this part of the state, and it took for him to get the job promotion to start exploring my neck of the woods. He would pass comments to me when he was first coming down how he liked this side of the state so much better, that's kind of weird for someone who has lived in the state for 40 years, and all of  a sudden they are obsessed with where I live?  I believe it has to do with the visualizations. When you do your visualizations, just make sure that they are in LA and not Florida,  by default he will have to come back to LA to make the scenes come to real life, at least that's what I think.

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Thanks Dreamcatcher! Yes I really understand! I think you're right that doing visualization really helps and I can beef up imagining him in LA. I think you're TOTALLY spot on and that guy that keeps showing up in those places are definitely a result of you visualizing. I think you're on the right path and you're definitely getting closer to your goal of having him!

Hey ForgetYour Evil!

Thanks for your post! I agree with you entirely! I know he's told me, "I've never experienced a more spiritual connection to anyone" and "I don't want to give myself to anyone but you." and "No other girls interest me for the past 2 years but you." I can tell he's stuck on me and I am on him, but I wish he communicated with me more. I know he's depressed and suffers greatly from it. I can try imagining him depression free, communicating with me, and us seeing each other regularly? What do you think? I totally agree with you that distance can definitely develop the emotional bond significantly!

Awwww yes... like he's told me "No other woman could satisfy me before you." I feel so fulfilled with you and it doesn't feel empty like other girls I was with before. He said he keeps dreaming of me too and thinks of me often.  He also never pressures me for sex and understands I'm a virgin and doesn't want me to feel used in any way. So he is just so respectful.  What confuses me is I totally believe he is genuine yet I don't know why he doesn't communicate with me regularly.

Yes communicating vulnerability... I like to do that. I can focus more on me communicating than him. An idea came to me to "live as if". I haven't done art in years, but I have this urge to draw him. I was thinking of acting on that and drawing him. I don't know if I would send it to him unless he reaches out to me first... but I know his birthday is coming up in July. If I was in a relationship with him, I would probably draw him and impress him with my skills. Would that be a good move to make, "acting as if" and drawing him?

He lives on the East coast and I'm on the west coast. We don't talk at all... he doesn't really reach out. We talked quite a bit in the summer when I wished him happy birthday and then he and I talked for over a month straight. He told me he would tell me if he had enough money to come out to the West Coast to visit me. I didn't hear fromo him after that.... this was in September. I was perplexed but had a theory, perhaps he was embarrassed he didn't have enough funds? The insecurity in me just blamed myself and said, "Oh maybe he doesn't like me" even though deep down I know that's wrong.

He reached out to me last month saying he really misses me and he said, "I don't even expect you to write back to me since I couldn't make the trip last year and I'm so sorry" He seems depressed. but he said He wanted to see me. I said yes and we hung out and it was amazing. Yet I didn't hear from him after it. When he was waiting for me outside, he said, "Come on I can't wait any longer. I have to feel your kisses." He told me I have a heart of gold, I am pure and innocent and he feels super passionate about our chemistry. I haven't heard from him since last month....

He told me that he would DEFINITELY commit to me if he was on the West Coast again.... he just said he is unhappy with his living situation (living with mom) and he's so far away..... he said if he didn't have those obstacles, had more independence he would want to be with me.... I would love a relationship with him. He isn't looking for a fling but a relationshiop but I sense there is something conflicting inside him. Perhaps feelings of not being good enough, depression, etc. I can't figure it out entirely, yet in the past I just blamed myself like' Oh he probably never liked me" even though I know he is like super passionate about me in particular... and keeps dreaming of me he says.

Sam wrote:

The Universe is infinite intelligence, so yes there's a way. In fact, there's probably endless ways that it can bring this about! That's not your concern. All you have to do is keep the faith and the Universe will deliver. My boyfriend lives 1,800 miles away from me but we've been enjoying the journey of closing the distance, and along the way, the Universe has delivered us circumstances that only aid us.

 
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