Thanks cherished!! and one more question..how do we cancel previous thoughts/beliefs? I mean..before i found out about the loa..i had a feeling that he will leave the city and then i will not hear from him..and i'll meet him again after years.. so now that i understood that it was me that made all these "feelings" to come true, how can i cancel this one? simple by "rewritting" the story? 

Great!!  :* <3

Hey guys!! An update about my story and I would love to hear your opinion!

Out of the blue one day, after 7 months of absolutely no contact, he started liking my posts..( from a research i found out that he broke up) about 20 days later, one night around 3:30 am he texted me on fb telling me that he is coming to my city for a few days and if i want to go out for a coffee..The night he arrived texted me again to arrange it and the next afternoon we went out..
It was like no time had passed..you couldn't tell that we had to speak 8 months..
It was great..we were taking about many things but in general.. At some points we were touching each other while talking, you know.. He was showing me some videos and we had our heads so close..
But generally he wasn't flirty and as i can tell i wasn't either.
At the end we had a walk and he waited with me for my bus.. The atmosphere at this point was just friendly..
When my bus came he hugged me and kissed me in a friendly way and he told me he was very glad that he saw me and he will tell me when he will come again.
I felt really bad after..cause he reminded me how it was to be near him.. But again nothing..
The next day he had his birthday, so i called him but he had his phone off, so i texted him on fb saying that i called him but it was off so i'm wishing him here..
A couple of hours later, i had a call from him..he told me that he has changed his number and forgot to tell me, so now i have the new one and to say thanks for the wishes..
We talked for a couple of minutes friendly and in the end we said goodbye and he told me we will talk again.
The next day i liked one pic of him and at night he liked mine.. 😋
Now 2 days have passed and nothing. I decided that i'll try to keep it light and to see what will happen.. But i would love to hear your opinion about his behaviour and your advices! 😊

Next time you talk to him and/or see him, here's a tip ;) look in the mirror and say to yourself about 10 times '(his name) is going to fall for me, he's going to fall for me' then list out all the great traits about yourself to yourself and then smile and dance in your room to a song about being pretty, my jam is 'pretty girl rock' , cheesy but whatever, then think about the things he liked about you before, think in your head what he found attractive. Then, if you're going to see him, wear something red, red does this thing where it brings out confidence in you and men find it attractive, anything red, like a scarf, top...and carry yourself with an air of confidence and grace. If you're talking to him, speak in a tone of confidence and femininity and grace. If you really can do that, there is actually no way he wouldn't find you attractive (unless he's gay) because you're basically being the most feminine, attractive, confident you and you have the end goal visualised I've done this a lot a lot of times, every time, I get results, every single time Even if the result isn't immediate, like if he's resistant, he will still feel the attraction but he may have reasons why he's shutting it down, but it would take a strong man to shut down to that energy :3

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oh ...and the most important thing, FEEL ....feel the moment, feel his presence, feel the laughter when you laugh, feel his smile, feel the positivity, feel him being calm, feel him being a bit nervous, feel him being whatever he's feeling and then feel yourself being relaxed, easy going, a bit flirtatious naturally, not over the top, worried, putting on a facade, just feel whatever there is to feel because that's the key. If he smiles and says something about something that excites him, feel that enthusiasm, let him lead the dance and when you talk, talk about something that excites you, people just want to be in the presence of someone who is alive and makes them feel more alive Being alive is the most amazing trait, but not cocky or self centered or arrogant, the opposite, be interested in them , that's charming

 
Thanks a lot for your support!! 😃 I decided that i should go back to loa thinking and practising cause the last days i admit that i was back to my old way of thinking! 😘😘