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ShootingStar · 5/07/2016 7:57 pm

Ok so I just thought today, if loa doesn't hear the difference between what we want and don't want, eg, if we say we don't want to be late and then subsequently we're late but we sent out the vibe of lateness into the world instead of earliness...well what about if you do get to a stage where you're like 'oh I don't want my ex to come back, I hate him, I don't want to be back together ever again' would that not still send out the vibe of him coming back and being together? Because you're paying attention to the 'desire' still.

So there have been times where I've literally been in the vibration of hating him and telling him i never want to see him again, yet after those times, I would get him back and this time I decided to be mature so I didn't go down that road, but I haven't gotten him back as fast as I did those times? Maybe even in my vibration of being angry at him and hating him, I still had a stronger vibration about him in general which attracted him back faster? Could it just be that our vibration is just our attention, so even in our hatred of another person, we attract them due to the sheer intensity? After all, love and hate are so close together on the emotional scale.

Saying that, with the amount of energy we put on hating someone, it doesn't work out as worth it, it's a lot of energy to truly hate someone, it's as much energy as it takes to passionately love someone. Does intensity make a difference?

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ShootingStar · 5/07/2016 7:59 pm

As in saying you 'do not want to be late' you're immediate intention is to be early but the emphasis is on the fear of lateness, being late is on your mind, while 'I do not want my ex to come back' you're seeming immediate intention is for them to leave you alone, but you're emphasizing the element of them coming back as opposed to saying and feeling 'I enjoy being single' which has no element of them coming back in your vibration at all.

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Leli · 5/08/2016 2:43 am

i have a lot of experience with this :D
I will use all my examples.
Almost 10 years ago i had a best friend. All other people just tought that we are couple, because we were so close. Last year of our friendship i experience "i don't want her" all the time. i become in love with her, but she said no, i don't want to be with you, so i forget about this. After month or two the situation turn around and she become in love with me, but i say no, and than again situation turned around. So we were in this cycle for one year. Later we decide to be together and after some time we broke because i had bad toughts and i was soo jalous. We had big fight so we did't speak. She try to contact me to apologise but i did't allow it. She always come back when i think about her (LOAAAA), but i was angry on her. So after her a was single for one year and i was focused only on me and i always said i don't have time for girlfriend or something like this. The girls who want to be with me just pop up, and than i meet her. My love. She was one of my client and she was absolutly not my type. I talk with her but i said i don't want to be with her. Her caracter is very bad. I think on this way and talk. And what happened? We become couple for 7 years and we were in phase to get family. Another good example. Even my break up is made with this. I had joke that she will be with this guy and she will hate me.She become angry with me when i had this joke. She said i am only yours and i don't want be with this guy. Guess what happened?
Almost all my friends have same experience. They broke up with somebody and said i don't want go back. Guess what happened, they come together or the person who left come back and try to reconcile. So always works.
But everybody who come together again they had another break up. Not because you can't be happy again with sam person, but because they didn't change their vibration. They think a lot of on past. So past come back :D

Have a nice beautifull day

ShootingStar · 5/08/2016 9:33 am

Cool Leli ! That's exactly true.....too true! It's weird even haha

Cherished · 5/08/2016 3:56 pm

This is absolutely true- and again it comes down to resistance. The universe totally does NOT hear the "I want" or "I don't want"..... It simply feels what your vibration is, and matches you with something that also vibrates in that way. That's why affirmations are important, they need to be written correctly if you are to succeed at this. If you are starting to feel unwell, and you say "I don't want to be sick! I don't want a sore throat, I don't want this headache.." The universe can only feel "sore throat, headache.."and works hard to bring you a match to those vibrations. Boom. You're sick. Instead, you have to vibrate "I'm healthy, I'm well rested, I'm feeling fabulous." I know that initially when you feel like crap, it just seems irritating to stand there saying "I feel fabulous!"'because your body is screaming "no, I'm not fabulous, my head hurts dammit!" BUT if you can slow down, meditate, take a shower, relax and really repeat that you are healthy and whole and fabulous- you truly will start to feel better. It's the same with any topic, any ailment, any situation.

ShootingStar · 5/08/2016 8:45 pm

Yes Cherished, definitely agree ! It's not even language, like we can say something that doesn't resonate with our true intention. Lying, basically. Lying feels wrong because every bone in our body knows the truth and it's hard to lie for most people who aren't pyschopaths. Same thing if we say 'I don't care if my boyfriend doesn't come back, I don't love him!!' which is what I was saying mentally but I suppose the true intention was so different, that even saying it with intensity and feeling like I meant it, it caused such a stir of emotion in my body that it was a lie. The universe would pick up on your intention, it would see what you're really emotionally aiming at. That feeling of not wanting to get sick, your whole body just panics with the thought of being sick, making it sick I believe. I think that it's a good message to anyone who thinks they can't use LOA or it always goes wrong, because they say something and want to believe it, but they inherently don't believe it or they're so worried about it that it pops up because they keep putting emphasis on it. I think also, when we're in floods of tears and thinking 'I NEED him back or my life will be awful forever!' we bring so much emotion to the 'life will be awful' part or that fear part that that's when things start to go downhill. I need him...or else...this will happen....and all we think and feel about is doom....

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