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Re: Quick help kind of a messsss
And yeah, let him talk more, don't say a lot, just accept silently whatever he throws at you , good or bad, and keep your reaction for later, when I was crying it wasn't like crying exactly, I just had tears in my eyes but I didn't let myself break down totally.
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Re: Quick help kind of a messsss
ShootingStar wrote:
Cherished's advice is perfect
One more thing to add, is that it is always possible to be attractive to someone you were once attractive to. If the spark was ever there, it can be there again and again. I remember having a similar situation when my ex came to tell me that he wanted to be with someone else and I allowed myself to feel the emotion of sadness with him instead of anger and I remember looking in his eyes with tears and he started to cry too and he held me and as he did he started getting attracted and connected to me again from the touch and the openness of my vulnerability right there in front of him and then I let him actually make me feel better, I remember both crying and laughing as he told me things he loved about me. Then I let him go with a smile and a stillness that he couldn't resist so he ended up spending more time with me there and 3 weeks later we met up again and he kissed me and then he left the other person.
Thank you for sharing this, it's beautiful and that's so interesting. I don't want to be crying (I'm a big cry baby anyway lol) so I probably will, but I think it's true as you say that anger really is sadness in a different coat. I'm going to try and be sensitive and graceful without saying too much. I have no idea how this is going to go... ❤️ Thank you for all your loving vibes I feel it. And I don't feel as angry and hopeless as I did this morning.
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Please let us know how everything turned out!!!
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Please let us know how everything turned out!!!
Thank you so much I will do! Still waiting on his ass.
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Thread Starter- rosetinted
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This thread was really helpful to read, I myself slipped up today by contacting my guy to wish him luck on an exam, he hang answered yet even though it was only an hour ago I sent it, I feel sad about it right now, I wish I hadn't done it and I'm not sure how this is going to effect the final outcome! Struggling today
Keep re reading the bits that help you! That's what I'm doing today. Try not to feel sad, imagine it as a little being of love on its own you've sent to him - bless it! I read that in a book where someone would 'baptise' and bless events for the best outcome, for right now. X
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Thread Starter- rosetinted
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Thank you! I feel confused to why he would ignore me I'm probably over reacting and I need to concentrate on the positives now not the negatives I think
There's a million different reasons, which is the best reason you can find? That would make you feel ok? X
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Check out Veronica's latest video on YouTube:
It will help!!
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Check out Veronica's latest video on YouTube:
It will help!!
Great timing! Thank you 
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Thread Starter- rosetinted
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Thank you guys! I think I'll just let it go now and see how things go!
You got this! X
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Thread Starter- Cherished
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Let us know how it went, we have some vibes to raise in the coming weeks! 😘
If you imagine it in your mind..
Believe it in your heart..
Feel it in your soul..
You will hold it in your hand 💞
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