The time bit is something that I kind of get confused about :S 

Like, time is about perspective, for example, 2 weeks can be a long time if you're working or a short time if you're on holiday. You can emotionally go back in time when you revisit old memories and look at old photos. Then there is that 'time heals all wounds' phrase I like but also 'time is the greatest healer' and it's no secret that people are all ever expanding beings and deliberate creators in their own universe and they are constantly changing to get to where they want to be, so the problem is, time might just actually make a difference though? Like seeing as we're all evolving and what we want is a person who is evolving too and if we're not really evolving together and have no idea where we're both evolving to or what speed, isn't time a bit of a risky obstacle? What if they expanded into someone we don't know anymore because we weren't around to watch the evolution? ;s