So you get what you put out right, so basically you got to put out what you want back .. It sounds like there's a missing piece to your puzzle and it's respect and value. You want him to not cancel and you want him to want to hang out with you if he's free. So you got to become a girl who respects herself and her time. If he cancels, make other plans, if he cancels twice in a row, then make it harder to make plans with you again. Its not game playing because you have to teach people how you want them to treat you and if youre putting out vibes of 'its cool if you cancel its totally fine ' people will keep doing it while if you put out the vibe of 'its fine if you don't want to see me or don't prioritise me at all but I'm looking for a relationship/friendship where someone does enjoy spending time with me and does make me a priority and I know I can get it ' but don't say it like that but act on it like that, you will see a change

everytime he cancelled I went out with my best friend and I usually always have plans but now I'm just going to focus on hanging out with my friends even more haha

You released your resistance and gave him the space to come to you!

happyinlove wrote:

I understand where you are coming from . We talk about the hot and cold vibe and we are the ones making it happen. I plan things and get scared he ll bail on me and what does he do? Bail lol. You are on the right track focusing on friends and doing other things. Send out a good vibe be happy with you and just be in love with you and everything ( not just love) falls into place. 😃

I do that too it's okay! not really but we learn from it lol. thank you I will definitely take your advice!