Sorry, I am really exhausted so my thoughts are all over the place...need some sleep, goodnight.

happyinlove wrote:

oh girl you got this. I got my guy to be single twice. You can do this. What I did was I got out of Facebook snapchat  and every time I thought of him and her i went to like a random thought this most recent time he was single in a week. Just keep your thoughts away from them pinch yourself or something every time it comes up. It is soooo not impossible for this to work out. You can do it. I am still working to get my guy back but this part. I feel like a pro at . Trust me you can do this. just do the visualizations , pamper yourself and distract yourself when you think of them or tell yourself I feel nothing and I do not react to this thought. 

He only mentioned her once to me and that was it. He still contacts me on his own though. Always checking how I feel although I feel fine about the situation. As well as we have more deep and meaningful conversations then when we were dating. I am thankful that our communication improved. My mind is off the other girl. I got the book Mindful Manifestations to learn to relax and breathe when manifesting. It had my favorite Chinese Proverb in the book that I used to keep with me, "Tension is who we think we should be. Relaxation is who we are." I need to get back to the visualizations. I also started morning yoga, and want to try some holistic therapy. Just to center myself, I still get random anxiety, but not from fears. It just happens. I believe that it will work out, especially with how close we are getting with each other. He has been so sweet since we started speaking again, he seems more open with me about things too. I will give him so much love and appreciation, I no longer feel that tension between us that I used to. I just want to create a better story with him. Especially since all these years of dating him, I know exactly how to turn our relationship around with the help of loa.

https://youtu.be/v2CvZ6MzMX0 Try this while visualizing.

holistichealing wrote:

happyinlove wrote:

communication is the best. I am going to ask the universe for better more meaningful communication. I feel like I get so nervous and just think about my want that he doesn't get to see the real me. I know he would fall in love with that me. How I am everyday, so I am asking for the universe to let him see that. I know there would be sparks and he would be in love with me again. Focus on those positive things and the love you have for him. He will come to you for sure.

It's crazy because I wanted him to fall for the true me too. He always mentions how kind and sweet I am, as wellis as how amazing it is that I can express myself.

It's funny not just you holistic, but many people put a post up and people reply saying they need to focus on themself and their alignment. Then the person replies still talking about the person they are trying to attract.

The key is to listen to those words, "focus on yourself". The other person's qualities and actions are not important. You are the driving force in getting what you want.

It's seems like people are writing the equivalent of "I'm staring up at the sun and its blinding me, help me" then they get replies "ok look away from the sun" and then they reply "yes but the sun is so pretty I'm still staring at the sun and it's still blinding me"

You can't focus on the guy with needy desperate vibrations and expecting any positive movement to occur.


LOA fundamental principle is improving your perception of your reality. It's about what value and emotion you choose to attach to outside elements.

happyinlove wrote:

Oasiscalm wrote:

holistichealing wrote:

It's crazy because I wanted him to fall for the true me too. He always mentions how kind and sweet I am, as wellis as how amazing it is that I can express myself.

It's funny not just you holistic, but many people put a post up and people reply saying they need to focus on themself and their alignment. Then the person replies still talking about the person they are trying to attract.

The key is to listen to those words, "focus on yourself". The other person's qualities and actions are not important. You are the driving force in getting what you want.

It's seems like people are writing the equivalent of "I'm staring up at the sun and its blinding me, help me" then they get replies "ok look away from the sun" and then they reply "yes but the sun is so pretty I'm still staring at the sun and it's still blinding me"

You can't focus on the guy with needy desperate vibrations and expecting any positive movement to occur.


LOA fundamental principle is improving your perception of your reality. It's about what value and emotion you choose to attach to outside elements.

I dont think I said anything bad. The main thing is to feel happy and good. 

@happy, I don't think I said you said anything bad. I didn't say anyone said anything bad.