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Hiiiii.. so my guy contacted meee YAYYY! & he actually asked me why he hadn't seen or heard from me in a long time.. it's been about a month lol & he was very off back then.. Lol so it is great that he asked me this.. PROGRESS!!! I'm just happy & high off life.. & I said I could ask you the same lol & he said you could.. then I said well hollaaaa you know where I am.. BUT He then said.. why would I contact you when you don't contact me.. So I then said.. do you want me to call you? & he said what is that gonna do so I laughed & said.. okay I won't lmaoooo.. coz I was just confused like what do you want from me hahaha but I'm very bubbly positive person so that's why I just be laughing at his responses lol.. But at this point I'm thinking should I contact him soon because that seems to be what he's waiting for? Or still not contact him & just let the universe work on him some more so he actually stops being stubborn & just contacts me properly? Looool
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He's opened up communication, so I think it's fine to call him and chat. Be light and easy, and come from a place of happiness and unconditional love. Don't talk relationships, just be fun and happy and easy-going. Don't play games with him, or turn this into a no-contact competition. He's opening up, so be kind and joyful, and just add a bit of sunshine to his day π
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Cherished wrote:
He's opened up communication, so I think it's fine to call him and chat. Be light and easy, and come from a place of happiness and unconditional love. Don't talk relationships, just be fun and happy and easy-going. Don't play games with him, or turn this into a no-contact competition. He's opening up, so be kind and joyful, and just add a bit of sunshine to his day π
Thank you Cherished.. you always know what to say to help.. obviously I offered to call yesterday but he'd replied.. "What's that gonna do.." Lol should I just ignore that? & maybe call him later this week anyway?
& if you don't mind me asking.. how long did it take for you to get back with your love? & did you go through little off moments like mine where he clearly wants to talk but is still acting tough as though he doesn't.. lol