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Frustrated
Last week I began talking to a guy via text after we shared a few emails via a dating site and realized things were going well. We were supposed to meet up this past Friday, but he had to cancel. Now, I believe I am getting ghosted by him. Sure, I'm frustrated by this, but at the same time I'm trying to keep my vibe up. I've tried Lanie's PW method on him but nothing, so obviously my emotions are getting the best of me. Whatever, I never met him anyway.
But it occurred to me, since the universe knows that I desire a guy from my past, could this be the universe's way of saying, 'keep going, he's almost here'? Anyone else ever have something similar happen? I've forgotten about this guy now, and my thoughts are going back to my original guy.
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Re: Frustrated
In my opinion there is no universe that says anything to you. YOU are the universe. Your guy stands there in an other vibrational realm and is waiting for you. The only thing you have to do is to tune yourself into the frequency of the relationship and get there where he already is. He waits for you, he loves you - you just have to feel that it is already there for you.
The ghosting thing happened to me too. I think that happens when you have a needy vibration or at least it was the reason in my case. When you have a steady high vibration nobody will ever dump you.
"Self-abandonment. That is the secret. We have to abandon ourselves to the state, in our love for the state, and in so doing live the life of the state and no more our present state. And to make the state alive, one must become it."
Neville Goddard ~ The Law and the Promise
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Re: Frustrated
If you believe that you are being ghosted by him that you are. The universe is giving you whatever you believe to be true. Have faith in yourself. If you need to, take a step back and meditate, or do something to raise your vibration, then continue on with the visualization. Remember what is happening now, is only a result of your past emotions, change your vibration and beliefs and your future will change! Wishing you the best of luck!
"You can be, do, and have whatever you want. You are the creator of your reality."
- big_blue
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Re: Frustrated
I don't think I was feeling needy with this new guy - if anything I was excited for a potentially new relationship.
Thank you both for your kind words and wisdom. Its always good to have a reminder that I am capable of ANYTHING, and that when I need that jolt to remind me, I've got you all (:
"Believe in what you feel inside, and give your dreams the wings to fly
You have everything you need, if you just believe" - Believe, Josh Groban
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Re: Frustrated
No problem
I love coming onto this site or similar sites when feeling bummed, it always brings my spirits up!
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