RollingRock33 wrote:

She said she's never going to be with me... And she has no feelings for me, and thinks of me as  afriend.

But yet she'll sit on the phone with you talking for an hour about each others days..change your story, my love. Stop repeating this. Repeating it keeps it active. I am still attempting to understand this myself, but the whole "story you tell" thing does seem to make most sense to me. Before my guy moved in with his girlfriend, I kept repeating that he was never home and practically moved into her house..at that point he was still home multiple times a week, & even sleeping there, but still he was gone enough to make me feel sad about it. Anyway, the more I repeated to myself & others that he wasn't home & always at her house, the more I saw that reality taking place, until the day he really DID move In with her. Had I changed the story in the first place, he may not have moved in so quickly!!!

Stop listening to what she says!!!

Change the story.

You still have the desperate vibe going, you must change it. Loa does work and you can reverse this situation, I know you can. Believe!

Saying things like...odds are against me and it seems hopeless, well that's not going to help.
You can ignore current reality by not putting any focus on what you dont want to see or hear. Change your story to the one you want, stick to it and believe it.

Hey RollingRock,
I am not too experienced but I think you need to stop thinking about her anything and focus on other things because the negative momentum seems to be too big right now that you are not able to think anything positive in regards to this situation. Get yout focus on other things. Your work. Friends. Family. Anything to take your mind off this thing.

You should look up mental discipline. I am still learning about that. I have faith, but I get emotional still when he pushes me to move on, meanwhile he worries about me and cries when I cry. So it is like why go this far to talk to me just to tell me to move on. You obviously have feelings, I just need to keep my faith that he will realize.