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Wanting and Resenting at once....
Hey loves!
My guy may or may not lose his arm today.. He's going in for surgery and if the bone seems too dead then they will go ahead with an amputation.
His 17 year old girlfriend is by his side and I can't help but be jealous because I should be the one there, with our baby, as a family. For one reason or another, he claims to despise me (and say she is the love of his life). My fear is they'll stay together. I know I'm suppose to forgive him, but how? I love to imagine us as a family with more kids, but sometimes that thought doesn't feel good because anger, fear and resentment sets in. Where do I begin? The thought of him doesn't always feel good... I know I need to get myself back before I can get my ex back but where do I start? Having the hardest time aligning today!!!
Thank you loves!
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Re: Wanting and Resenting at once....
aj110214 wrote:
Hey loves!
My guy may or may not lose his arm today.. He's going in for surgery and if the bone seems too dead then they will go ahead with an amputation.
His 17 year old girlfriend is by his side and I can't help but be jealous because I should be the one there, with our baby, as a family. For one reason or another, he claims to despise me (and say she is the love of his life). My fear is they'll stay together. I know I'm suppose to forgive him, but how? I love to imagine us as a family with more kids, but sometimes that thought doesn't feel good because anger, fear and resentment sets in. Where do I begin? The thought of him doesn't always feel good... I know I need to get myself back before I can get my ex back but where do I start? Having the hardest time aligning today!!!
Thank you loves!
Took me 9months to forgive, I got my girl back very easily, 3 times now, forgiveness was the hard part for me,
If you wanna know how to forgive, watch bob proctor on law of forgiveness but also study law of vibration (the primary law). It puts things into perspective and makes you realise that it's your vibration that people and the world act on
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Re: Wanting and Resenting at once....
Hey loves!
My guy may or may not lose his arm today.. He's going in for surgery and if the bone seems too dead then they will go ahead with an amputation.
His 17 year old girlfriend is by his side and I can't help but be jealous because I should be the one there, with our baby, as a family. For one reason or another, he claims to despise me (and say she is the love of his life). My fear is they'll stay together. I know I'm suppose to forgive him, but how? I love to imagine us as a family with more kids, but sometimes that thought doesn't feel good because anger, fear and resentment sets in. Where do I begin? The thought of him doesn't always feel good... I know I need to get myself back before I can get my ex back but where do I start? Having the hardest time aligning today!!!
Thank you loves!Took me 9months to forgive, I got my girl back very easily, 3 times now, forgiveness was the hard part for me,
If you wanna know how to forgive, watch bob proctor on law of forgiveness but also study law of vibration (the primary law). It puts things into perspective and makes you realise that it's your vibration that people and the world act on
Thank you! I just can't help but worry that him and this new girlfriend are going to be together forever.
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Re: Wanting and Resenting at once....
Hey loves!
My guy may or may not lose his arm today.. He's going in for surgery and if the bone seems too dead then they will go ahead with an amputation.
His 17 year old girlfriend is by his side and I can't help but be jealous because I should be the one there, with our baby, as a family. For one reason or another, he claims to despise me (and say she is the love of his life). My fear is they'll stay together. I know I'm suppose to forgive him, but how? I love to imagine us as a family with more kids, but sometimes that thought doesn't feel good because anger, fear and resentment sets in. Where do I begin? The thought of him doesn't always feel good... I know I need to get myself back before I can get my ex back but where do I start? Having the hardest time aligning today!!!
Thank you loves!
Begin with some breathing exercises. When thoughts of him and this girl pop into your head, relax and breath it all out until you feel like yourself again.
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Re: Wanting and Resenting at once....
I'm not sure how old you and the person you want are , but 17 is so young, so i sincereky doubt that will last !
'What We Think, We Become' -Buddha
- aj110214
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Re: Wanting and Resenting at once....
Thank you guys!!!! Guess I'll just work on myself for now.. I know I'll get him back. We WILL be together again, as a wonderful family. Feeling nothing but hopeful 
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Re: Wanting and Resenting at once....
You can't resent and attract at the same time. Can't happen. So you must decide if you resent him, or you love him unconditionally.
If you imagine it in your mind..
Believe it in your heart..
Feel it in your soul..
You will hold it in your hand 💞
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You can't resent and attract at the same time. Can't happen. So you must decide if you resent him, or you love him unconditionally.
You're sooooo right!
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