Sam wrote:

RollingRock33 wrote:

Sam wrote:

You just proved to yourself that you can deliberately use the LOA. Today you asked, knew it was going to happen, and then you saw her! Boom. That's how easy it can be if you let it.

Let me ask you; how did you feel after you asked for the sign? What was your state of mind?

Thank you!

I saw a car that looked like hers, and my initial thought was, "yeah, that's her. I know it.", looked at the license plate and BOOM. I didn't even feel surprised. I felt like, "Of course she's here. Just as I knew she would be. I felt very good after I'd asked for it!

Part of me still finds it to be a coincidence - the skeptical side. But I'm trying SO hard to drown that side out.

That's exactly why it happened; because you felt good and relaxed. You had no resistance so she popped into your reality!

As you raise your vibe, those "coincidences" will keep happening in all areas of your life. Pay attention because those are manifestations, that's all you. That will help raise your confidence in the LOA and your skeptical side will hush. This is real and it's beautiful, and it still constantly amazes me.

Thank you! I hope you're right... I really want her back D:

So update, she reactivated her facebook, accepted my friend request on facebook, and re-deactivated it.


Huh... I wonder what that means? 

I'm having a really down day with a lot of anxious and worry thoughts. I'm also seriously doubting the LoA. Can someone please help me? I'm really scared... thanks.

I'm in agreement with Cherished, you're not in a good place right now and you're not attractive as a potential partner to her or to anyone else in that state. We've all been there, it's ok to be there, but stop thinking about getting back together with her for as long as you're there! Also, stop thinking about getting back together with her for a little while in general, you've set out your desire, you want her back...cool...it's done, she and you are back together, is this how you're going to be acting? All nervous and anxious and shakey and an energy drain? You gotta get in the vibe of a guy who is confident and has a girlfriend and many girls who would love to be his girlfriend. You actually got to , for your sake and for the sake of your manifestation. No one wants a person who allows their life to fall to pieces if they leave. Break ups are actually a great way to show your worth and desirability to the other person. They cut that cord and put you back in that sea with all those other fish, they're the ones taking a risk, because they don't know what you're going to do! You might just start swimming away happy as ever and meet another fish without a second look back! Trust me, people want what they see as valuable and as important and desirable. They want people who value themselves and their own time and lives. A person who values themselves shows love when they mean love but if the person they love doesn't want that love, they keep that love alive in their hearts but also start to go else where to people who do appreciate their time and their energy, be it friends, family, going out and meeting other people. They know that they have the ability to make themselves happy and get their needs met in other areas and ways and that they are steady enough as people to not let one person ruin their life , many people get to this stage eventually after a break up, but the faster you get there, the less time and energy you waste

First, do not talk to her. She is not going anywhere. Let her initate contact if she wants. Right now the focus is on fixing your vibration.

If you need proof on whether LOA works, look at your relationship with her. How did you feel during happy and bad times with her? Do you see that when you are happy and trusting, the relationship worked. When you are afraid of losing her, she grew distant? Do you see that your fears eventually played out in reality? You're always creating! You have to use mental discipline to eliminate the doubts. You're creating a new habit so give yourself time do it. That's why it's good to not contact her. The more you chase her or feel down and low, the more distant she will become.

Ultimately, no one can make you believe. You have to jump in and do the work. I've gotten my ex back btw. LOA works.