Hi, guys! I know it's been a minute! I know some of you are struggling with trying to ignore current reality when you're bothered that your love is seeing someone else. Trust me, when I found out, I was in total shock and in this false sense of resentment that was almost like she betrayed me. But, look, it's all in the story you tell yourself. For example, I've come up with this recently and hopefully it helps some of y'all too.

First of all, let go of that hurt and forgive your love. This can be hard sometimes when you really want to point a finger at them for your pain and pull a trigger on it. STOP. Just get to the story part. Tell your love in your heart and mind "Look, I know that what you're doing is your way of dealing with whatever we went through, and I don't approve. But, I love you and I know that you'll be with me again soon. So, go ahead, do what you think you have to do. You do you, I'm gonna do me, and then we'll be able to do each other ;) "

Okay, so for the story part (the story you're gonna start telling yourself from here on): Look, when you think of them with "someone else", think of them as going out with you again, but obviously you're thinking about it in the third person. Like, if you asked a friend how he/she is doing and if he/she is seeing someone, your friend would tell you, yeah, he/she is seeing (your name here). And then think about how amazing of a person "you" are and how happy you are that your love is seeing such an awesome person and bless that couple as the beautiful relationship that they are. And keep toying with this idea that your love is going out with you and feel this joy and happiness for your love is happy in his/her relationship.

I think this method is good because not only are you able to envision the end result by believing you and him/her are in a relationship and the thoughts that come with it. You find this peace and unconditional love for your person and feel that unselfish joy that comes from being happy when they're happy, even if it's not the first-person you. From this, you get to feel love and admiration for yourself as you approve that your love is seeing "you" and all the amazing qualities about yourself that you know would make a person like your love happy forever. This helps relieve some negativity which helps you focus more on your life and less on anything/anyone else with the belief that your love is already with you. The proof is in that relationship that you're seeing; you just need to raise your vibration to finally step into your third-person version's shoes and be that person.

I hope this wasn't too confusing...it makes sense in my mind lol. But, hey, if you guys need help, just ask a question and I'll try to clarify. Love you all and sending love out to everybody's lives!!