You have been having some great progress to focus on. So now you have stood your ground with him, which was the best move imo. Know that he will realize what he has lost and you will be back together. If it doesn't happen quickly don't lose faith as its all working out behind the scenes. You create your reality that's the thing to remember again and again. Assume that he is madly in love with you and remove any thoughts that contradict this. I know from experience easier said than done at times, but you have the ability to do it! and you already know that thoughts and feeling create things. 

Last edited by Cheer (4/28/2016 2:06 pm)

I watched a video on youtube ages ago by a guy who said he actually got his ex back from a terrible situation through loa. He claims it was the no contact thing that was the trick. He went completely awol, had no facebook so she couldn't even see through a friend's, no social media, went on a trip to Asia and did a meditation course. Basically made himself a total mystery to her so that she was so intrigued and also improved his mental state at the same time. He doesn't reccommend loa to get an ex back though, because he said that in his case the relationship when he got it back was terrible and he ended up leaving her. However, the thing to see is that mystery does really work especially if you're in that good vibration with your person. You don't have to go no contact, light contact is fine, answering his texts but not texting him and being busy a lot so you can't meet up with him, he will start to chase and start to be more serious I would say. But it's also for your own sanity, to create that distance, like a cat does. A cat moves away from a person when it wants to be petted, it has enough confidence in itself to know that the person will come towards it, then when the person pets it, it purrs with appreciation and that makes the person happy. Be a cat

Also want to put it out there that I dont think its going to take that much time at all 😃😃

I wholeheartedly agree cheer...thank you so much, these messages have really improvex my vibe.
I also thi k another negative i was doing was talking with girlfriends about it,hoping they will tell me what I want to hear and taking on their attitudes, i believe that this is now between me, the universe and other believers. This is a major shift for me and im kinda excitec x