And I totally agree with the part where you said you didn't just let go and happily carry on with your life, the most important thing is to really believe what you want is already yours!!!

Thanks everyone!
We broke up Nov 2015 and it was a very bad break up!
We didn't talk until Jan 2016
We were up and down but it's because I was up and down, a lot had happened and I was really hurt!
So I took a step back and cleaned myself and really thought about if I wanted him back if I could really move past everything.
It took abit of time to figure out but once I let the past go (not my desire) I forgave him and told him I did, I accepted the past cannot be changed only the future.
Once I did that then only really did it all fall into place beautifully!!
We just kinda clicked after that!
and I stopped reading up on if you can and if your allowed after I saw an artical about there being no rules? And I truly believe that what we believe is what will be!! If I believe I can't because people say there's rules about love ect then I can't!
But I believed I could I really believed that there were no limitations and it all worked out really well for me

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So when you say you went into it saying that you had nothing to loose, so in a way you did let go of the outcome. And when it did not matter what the outcome would be, how did you convince yourself to truly 100% believe he was with you already?

Happinessis wrote:

No I was not detached from the outcome
There was never really a point where I was like okay well if it doesn't work out its fine
The only thing I let go of was the hurt in the past!
I had nothing to loose in the sense of i saw this as my last option to try mend the relationship
I guess you can say do what makes you happy but to me i read that everywhere and I just didn't feel like that was so easy!
So I just took it day by day and if I felt okay watching series the whole day on a bad day then I would!
Look it took awhile to truly believe hence the ups and downs! In the beginning it feels unnatural but the more I wrote affirmations or sometimes I scripted I really saw my mind set change!
I was very interested in the law of attraction and watched many interesting things on YouTube that just opened up my mind and gave me excitement to think so much is possible!!!

You're an inspiration

I can so relate to this, the 'if it doesn't work out its fine' statement just rubs me the wrong way and makes things worse for me even if that's what pretty much everybody is saying. When it comes to anything I want in life, not just this guy, if I want something badly it's not fine if it doesn't work out and I don't like to make plan Bs before I even get started. At the end I decided that I was gonna listen to myself and stick to it and work on building up the belief. The affirmations and visualizations made me feel kinda silly at first but they worked.

Whenever I'm sad I just let myself be, I cried and did all that and gradually it got better and better.