Thanks es4life...

I'm just worried that I'll get my hopes up and that I'm staying hopeful for nothing. I'm really kinda nervous...

I just wish I understood, from a logical standpoint, her feelings for me. I tried sending her a message like an idiot and she ignored it...


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And I kind of stalk her pinterest afterward, and she has these messages about "moving on" and "toxic relationships", etc. She knows I look at her pins. Damn. She's probably doing that for my benefit huh? I jsut wish I knew whether or not she's struggling with this too. She makes it seem pretty damn easy to step out of my life...


And do I believe that she's my girlfriend? Is that what manifests it? Act and believe as if she's already my girlfriend?

Last edited by RollingRock33 (4/24/2016 10:29 pm)

You're welcome

About getting your hopes up...I've been thinking about this and wanting to say something for a long time but I decided not to cause I don't think some people would like it. But basically, don't be afraid to get your hopes up and get disappointed. I know full well how crappy getting disappointed feels like but still, id rather keep hoping for good things to come into my life.

I think that's the reason why so many people are all for the 'her/him or someone better' clause, they are afraid to get disappointed. Agains, I'd rather work for what I want than tell myself if it doesn't work then there's something better. And at least for me, if I want someone I want someone no one else would do, not 'someone better' not George clooney. Oh god I should go make an account named 'someone better'...:D

She said she knows I don't want to be just friends, and that she's walking out of my life for good. She always sticks to her decisions...

I don't know what to do... She said she's never contacting me again, and that she means it when she says she has no feelings for me in a romantic way... I also told her "it's hard to walk out of someone's life..." to which she replied, "It's not for me. I made that decision and I'm sticking with it."

What do I do?!

Last edited by RollingRock33 (4/25/2016 7:32 pm)

@Rolling the principle rule of LOA is you get what you focus on. I know you are seeking all the tools and processes that will get your ex back, but I really think you are missing the fundamental process which is to attract yourself back.

you absolutely have to stop focusing on your ex. I imagine as with the other posts I replied with this is not what you want to hear and you have every right to ignore my advice again.  But from where you stand currently you are not applying deliberate creation rules, you are wallowing in victim territory.

Start with yourself. Turn your focus back to your own wellbeing and vibration.

Sam wrote:

Coincidences don't exist, my dear. 😊 The LOA never stops which means you are literally always attracting. Congrats, you manifested her into your experience!

Thank you!!

I'm scared. She wants to be out of my life, but I don't know how to visualize or "feel" correctly to keep her in as my lover...