Just keep thinking of the end result knowing that you will be together and things will be better than ever between you guys!! the more you think about that the more likely it is to happen! so push those negative thoughts out of your head. Sending positive vibes your way xoxo.

ShootingStar wrote:

It's a good and bad thing you talk everyday, good because he hasn't cut you out of his life but bad because you run the risk of getting into a nervous vibration of 'where is this going? is it going somewhere I want or don't want?' often the best thing to do is no contact even when things are on friendly terms just so you can get yourself together, get a little detached from the situation, get into a confident and good vibe about yourself and have a time out from the current reality that isn't what you want right now. The no contact is a good way for him to also miss you. A friend of mine recently did no contact on her ex even though they were trying to be friends, she told him they needed time apart even though he left her. The last I heard from her situation is that he came up to her recently and asked her how she was and seemed more interested in her than before. It got to the stage where she realised he was moving on while being in contact with her and she didn't want to deal with him dating while being 'friends' with her. He's now told her that he isn't dating anymore, so I guess her disappearing took away his comfort blanket a bit too. I think going no contact seems impossible at first but really, if I could go back in time, I would have done it sooner than later because I'm in a harder situation now because of it :/ That would be my advice to do anyway

I have gone on no contact, I pull away when it gets difficult and he always runs to me. I never initiate contact and I am never to eager to reply, I often wait some time, hours or days to do so. Thank you for your advice!!!!

I Believe whole heartedly that you can get through your situation!!!!. Know that I am sending my love your way and that you have a whole FORUM of people who believe in you. I often watch Veronica's video's on repeat when I get discouraged Also I suggest some guided meditations as well. They really help to focus my mind on the task at hand. I will be praying for you, Just know that your mind is a powerful tool and that if God is for you than no one could ever stop You!!!!