The main point of that opera was that the guy had utter faith in the elixir that he felt so positive and happy ignoring her and that's what drew her to him, she didn't see him as a love sick puppy, sweet but a little weak or foolish for her, she saw him for who he really was, a happy and confident person not pining over her, and that's the key element of attraction. I would like to be with her, not need to be with her, if she was with me, we'd both be very happy and lucky, I am a capable and interesting enough person that I can have a great time on this planet without her, there is so much I can offer her, I am growing everyday to become a better person, I am improving myself everyday, if she doesn't see that, unfortunately it is her loss but other people will. Say those kinds of things to yourself everyday

LOA is always working. can you see that what you feared is playing out in your reality right now? You are always creating your reality. So now it's time to focus on what you do want! Have faith that you can have it. Amazing things happen when you have faith.

This is a vibrational universe. The techniques are there to raise our vibration. Focus on your needs. what can do yourself right now? Gratitude and appreciation are excellent ways to raise your vibe. She will come back. This isn't your last chance.

RollingRock33 wrote:

and can anyone give me some advice? Or maybe some techniques? 

As I  said before you can your girl back.

But you journey starts with dropping the needy vibration. It's good  to seek advice but it helps to understand the whole process.

Bring back the focus to yourself. I know you only want to hear about all the processes that will bring her back. But you are doing yourself a massive disservice if you don't look at the bigger picture.

Start with yourself and the rest will follow

ShootingStar wrote:

Good job with saying you don't want to be friends. That's a strong stance and you need to stand by it because yes, the fact she deleted her whole facebook is a positive sign of how she feels. I deleted my person on facebook and it made me feel so much stronger because I knew that as long as I was his facebook friend I'd have to deal with seeing unwanted pictures and I didn't want that in my life, thanks. They have to understand that we are not going to sacrifice our happiness for them, meaning we're not going to be 'friends' if that's not what we want and will make us unhappy. If they want our friendship, they can have it in the form we want, which is love and a relationship, but if they don't want that, they can't have our presence in their lives to make them feel better or less guilty or whatever. I saw my friend attempt to be friends with her ex and it led to disaster and pain.

So (I know the information given is small but) do you think she's got feelings for me? If it caused her to want to deactivate her Facebook?

And I don't really know what to do from this point forward. I told her I don't want her out of my life, and that I love her, but at the same time I don't want to be just friends. And if we do stay as friends, It's not okay with me that I stay there for good, and that if we do stay as friends for a while, my intention is to get closer to her so I'll be with her someday. I'm not okay with staying "just friends". I made that quite clear.

Between she and I, I told her:

"I INTEND on being with you someday, and I KNOW that we're meant to be together and we will someday."
I told her I know she has feelings deep down, for me, but she's probably not in touch with them at this time because of all the stupid **** I've done. 

I've told her to give me a call when she's ready to give me another chance.


- Do you think the fact that I told her that I "know we will be together someday", and that "I know for certain we're meant to be", etc., will get her thinking about it, and possibly bring up said feelings again?

I just want her back, honestly. This whole situation is a proper mind-f for me...

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The first thing that came to my mind after reading your post was this: if she could delete/block you today, she can add you back tomorrow. So if you want us to tell you that things are gonna be okay, there you go, it will.

Second, this has really been said over and over again but...ignore the things you don't wanna see in your current reality. Tell yourself this, you're the king of your reality and you get to call the shots, all these other people, they are the npc in your game and you program them to do what you want them to do. I was reading Neville earlier and one thing really stood out, I don't remember the exact wording but it basically tells us that we need to assume the state of wish fulfilled and be shamelessly persistent with it until it materializes. if the wish is to have this girl in your life as your partner, make that decision, the girl is yours. Now get off the forums, assume the state of wish fulfilled until it is and come back with a success story