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Hi all. I have a question I can't seem to find the answer to..
Does being indifferent place an obstacle in manifesting?
Like many others, I'm in the process of attracting my ex back. I've read a lot about letting go of the outcome and focusing on myself (which I've been doing). I'm curious as to what it means when a person becomes indifferent to their ex. I definitely don't count or lean on him for anything, emotionally or otherwise.
I do believe we belong together and right now, I'm very "in the zone" with my own life. I send him love every day but after that, I don't put much thought into it. I know it's being taken care of. My fear is that I've become complacent because, although there's been signs that things are getting better, I don't know if it's just my own projections or if something is actually happening. My beliefs are strong and I'm much happier now than I was after the break up.
I always see people talking about indifference being a sign of not caring but I do care about him and us - it's just not a main focus because I know stuff is being worked out and on behind the scenes. I just feel like sometimes, I'm beginning to forget what he looks and sounds like and that worries me a bit.. almost like he's fading from my memory despite believing we belong together.
Any thoughts or advice on the subject would be greatly appreciated!
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If by being indifferent you mean that if it doesn't happen OR if it does happen, you're good with that either way, it's no big deal because you're filled with self love and feel good whatever the outcome is, then no it will not put an obstacle in, quite the opposite. From what you said you're doing everything right, just remove the fear about being complacent.
Last edited by Cheer (4/18/2016 3:01 am)
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I've actually worried about this before as well. I'm starting to realize though that it may not always be a matter of indifference or no longer caring, it may just be a matter of letting go and becoming detached. That's what we actually need for desires to manifest, to detach from the outcome and not feel needy.