It  will still manifest when you feel ok as the desire is there, but it manifests  quicker if your emotions are love, peace, joy, passion, excitement because you are then a vibrational match to your desire. It's normal to drop some days,  but I wouldn't worry.  The best way to raise your vibration is to imagine and feel that your desire is already yours.  There are so many other ways to feel happier, maybe  listening to your favourite music, excercise,meditation,watching comedys and watching loa vids on Youtube. Be calm, happy with a knowing that what  you want is already yours.

I think now I am just impatient because I do not see anything else happening. How do you get past that? Like when he told me that i m not his catch i was not bothered becasue I know that can change. Its just right now I am losing my momentum and I want to keep it going. I have been so busy so I have not been able to focus on him, do I need to focus on him alot? Also its like if i am busy then usually things happen and I cant help but wonder why more has not happened? I mean I know it can but I m like ready. I just really want to cuddle him and hold him lol

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I had nothing for almost a year, a sweet but short email early last Autumn and then nothing good and I knew he was with another girl for sure, but the best thing to do I feel to get by is to find something else you enjoy, small things, like going for a walk and seeing nature or finding joy eventually you'll start to get into a better feeling place by having gratitude for all the small things that make life beautiful and then things will shift slowly in your favour, sometimes I got so low with the reality I had that I couldn't get out of bed but then I started to think that I need to be my own best friend and allow myself to find joy in life and be the person who has happiness, not the person who is trying to find happiness. My person is starting to come around now, slowly, very slowly, but the shift is happening I can feel it and I don't even need it anymore, I find myself feeling nice without it so the fact that the shift is happening is just adding to my joy of life but not giving me my joy in life. I can't begin to explain the pain I went through last year, the bottom of the bottom, the desperation, the anxiety, the depression was unbearable but I feel proud now today finding myself smiling more than crying at last and even though it took a while to get to this place, it's what made all the difference and that's what I hope will happen to you. The point of the law of attraction I feel is that when you are ready to recieve you will get it but sometimes we're just not mentally ready to recieve the thing we want, like I bet if your person came back right now to you it would be great for a week before all the negativity and insecurity you have from your past starts to come out and the relationship will slowly turn into a messy storm and end again. There was a time when my person told me that we were done and that we would never have another chance and he was sorry but said it was final, like final...3 months later we got back together and he came back to me wanting me, not me chasing him. It was such a great moment I think I cried a little out of happiness because I had just reached the point where I felt like I had to accept my reality and not hold on, but the desire never faded and he came along one day just like a movie and said how he fooled himself into believing he was happier without me. So I hope this gives you encouragement on what to do now