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we had a good conversation . I know this will work!!!
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woohoo! :D that's a good message for him to send definitely Β
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TheGiver wrote:
Confused, you are way too hung up on the details of everything. I think you need to take a step back and develop mores self-worth/ self-love in yourself.
This is absolutely everything. It needs to be shouted from the rooftops on every LOA forum. Lol
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Like it was so unexpected. I mean he said he , i am not his catch, but I know that will change look at what has changed so far. that was the best surprise message lol. so farΒ Β but I mean for him to say that to me means alot alot. And we had such a good convo our relationship is going to grow into that for sure. It may be this week =)
he sent that message without me initiating anything it was sent randomly last night and we talked and opened up about stuff. He actually wanted my input
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confused1077 wrote:
Like it was so unexpected. I mean he said he , i am not his catch, but I know that will change look at what has changed so far. that was the best surprise message lol. so farΒ Β but I mean for him to say that to me means alot alot. And we had such a good convo our relationship is going to grow into that for sure. It may be this week =)
Just please for all that is holy, remember that YOU are the prize and not him. He's a lucky bast ard that you even consider having him back. Lol
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I just wow am in disbelief I mean a week ago . I mean even though he said I'm not his catch. He said he doesn't know if I ever will. But hey I was once before and this is a beautiful start. I feel like he will change his mind soon.very soon.
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Ok I am happy about this but now what? Like I am ways make it to this point but this time I want to make my goal. So now what do I do? He clearly cares and he is now single. So what do I do now? I feel slightly stuck cause I always make it here and get stuck. I mean he cares a lot, as do I, we know we find each other super attractive , we are like helping each other grow as people etc. but now commitment. I know I'm his girl. So do j keep texting him to see how he is or wait til he reaches out? Last we spoke was Sunday when he reached out first. Help!
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Wait until he reaches out! You are attracting him vibrationally. You have to BELIEVE THAT and just relax. He will come.
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I think I have done well so far. I just want it so much and I just have gotten stuck here before for like a year and then got Β friends with benefits so I am wanting a relationship. So I want to be a girlfriend to him. I know I would be good. Today I was thinking on the drive that I love him and support him. I love so many little things about him. I want to be his support system. I just love him so much. I want to be held by him and cuddled.I want support him and help him reach his dreams. I want that deep love I know we have because obviously he cant ever get mad at me lol. I just have resistance because I have been stuck here before and impatient. How do you relax about that? I also feel disbelief still even though I believe LOA worked on Friday and Sunday. How do you become a believer when you have seen it and still try to say it is a conincidence?Β
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