But let me add this, and let's all be crystal clear. You can ask and ask and ask and ask for a thousand years, and you might not get what you want. Why? The universe is VIBRATIONAL. So your ASKING does nothing. Your VIBRATION is what matters. Whatever you vibrate at, is what is "heard and felt" by the universe. The universe ALWAYS delivers to you EXACTLY what you are a VIBRATIONAL MATCH to. So if you find a way to raise your vibration to match the feeling of being in a magnificent relationship, the universe will match it by delivering a magnificent relationship.

End of story.
It's a universal law.
It's perfect.

I'm not offended in the least 😊 But I'm not sure what else I can say. There comes a time when no amount of reading or asking or searching will suffice.. It is in that moment that you realise you must actually BEGIN the journey. None of this will get you anywhere, if you cannot motivate yourself to do the necessary energy work. Your job is to raise your vibration. We can say that in a million different ways, but you must actually go forth and DO that.

The biggest problem I see is that people NEED to read motivating things. There's nothing wrong with that initially, but eventually you have to BECOME the motivation for yourself. It's like a diet and exercise book. You can read it every day for the rest of your life, but your body won't change until you physically apply the material. Same with LOA. Most of you are probably now experts in WHAT you need to do.. But are you doing it consistently? Every day?

Cherished, I understand all of this & it makes perfect crystal clear sense to me. It makes perfect sense that filling yourself up with love, feeling loved, sharing love, being happy & joyful, etc -anything that makes you feel like you're loved & in a loving relationship- would bring a loving relationship to you. But how do you raise your vibration specifically to that of a SPECIFIC person, rather than just any loving person or relationship? The only reason that isn't clear to me, is because you'd obviously have to be on the same vibration as that specific person, so how do you know what that is?? Or is it just the sending the love and intent towards that specific person that puts you on the same vibrational level? If it's the sending love to them & intent specifically that does it, then that makes sense as well.

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Cherished, I understand all of this & it makes perfect crystal clear sense to me. It makes perfect sense that filling yourself up with love, feeling loved, sharing love, being happy & joyful, etc -anything that makes you feel like you're loved & in a loving relationship- would bring a loving relationship to you. But how do you raise your vibration specifically to that of a SPECIFIC person, rather than just any loving person or relationship? The only reason that isn't clear to me, is because you'd obviously have to be on the same vibration as that specific person, so how do you know what that is?? Or is it just the sending the love and intent towards that specific person that puts you on the same vibrational level? If it's the sending love to them & intent specifically that does it, then that makes sense as well.

 
It's just love and intention. And TRUST. You have to trust that the universe knows exactly what and who you want. They know it, 100%. And you've no doubt wished it and hoped for it and signalled it a gabillion times lol 😊

Trust that your preferences are known. They are. And then do whatever you can to hit the vibration of love and appreciation. They are basically the same vibe. If you are appreciating something outrageously, you are signalling love and abundance. That's all you need to do. The minute you are open and non-resistant, the universe will begin to bring your stuff towards you. The problem is, you do this for one day, and then turn back around the next because it's not working. What you have to appreciate is that there are a number of orchestrations that have to occur to allow the manifestation to come seamlessly into your life. You can't just be having a shower and BOOM, your guy appears in there like a genie.. That's just a little awkward! Could be lovely, but how would you explain that to HIM?! 😜