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Put it this way, first time she cut me off, I Basically set myself 6wks to have her back in my life and it only took 12hrs cos that night she rang me and left me me. I wanna get back to that vibration and lose all desperation
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Go to the high flying and immediate alignment sections. Read everything.
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Cherished wrote:
Go to the high flying and immediate alignment sections. Read everything.
Your a God send, thanks Cherished. Already I'm on a good vibe, a high
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I think you gotta stop rehashing the past too BooLaLa. We've ALL sent some kind of message to someone that we regret, but there's no need to wallow. Changing your vibration is the name of the game, so just focus on that. Like Cherished said, there's so many great posts around here--look into Cherished's own posts as well!
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BooLala wrote:
Cherished wrote:
Go to the high flying and immediate alignment sections. Read everything.
Your a God send, thanks Cherished. Already I'm on a good vibe, a high
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No more messages to her- lets get you back on track so that she comes to you. She will, but you need to put in the effort to raise your vibe and not text her, ok? You really can change this whole situation, promise π
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TheGiver wrote:
I think you gotta stop rehashing the past too BooLaLa. We've ALL sent some kind of message to someone that we regret, but there's no need to wallow. Changing your vibration is the name of the game, so just focus on that. Like Cherished said, there's so many great posts around here--look into Cherished's own posts as well!
Thanks TheGiver
Really appreciate it, I can get back on track now
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Cherished wrote:
BooLala wrote:
Cherished wrote:
Go to the high flying and immediate alignment sections. Read everything.
Your a God send, thanks Cherished. Already I'm on a good vibe, a high
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No more messages to her- lets get you back on track so that she comes to you. She will, but you need to put in the effort to raise your vibe and not text her, ok? You really can change this whole situation, promise π
Ok I'm ready and yes, no more messages and no more Facebook as that is what causes me a lot of problems. Thanks Cherished, yeah lets get my soul mate and true love back
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You are making things worse with letters like that. You dont have to let go of her but you do have to let go of your anger. If you are really trying to get her back you cant be talking about her dickhead friends. Take resposibility for why she left. Im sur you had something to do with it. Give 100% unconditional love. Stop blamimg her. Do you really think a letter like that would have a positive affect on how she feels about you? You've got some work to do if you really want to be with this person.
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Love is Real wrote:
You are making things worse with letters like that. You dont have to let go of her but you do have to let go of your anger. If you are really trying to get her back you cant be talking about her dickhead friends. Take resposibility for why she left. Im sur you had something to do with it. Give 100% unconditional love. Stop blamimg her. Do you really think a letter like that would have a positive affect on how she feels about you? You've got some work to do if you really want to be with this person.
I know, thank you. I've completely cut all ties, no facebook or any social media. I'm writing all the positive aspects of her friends and focusing on me and her being together, having children together, getting engaged and married. I'm focused now. And love all the feedback from everyone
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Personally, I would work on forgiving her for the hurts first and seeing your part in the story. It will be healing for you. Even if you're writing the positive aspects of her and her friends etc, it's so easy to default back to anger if she does something that triggers you. Vera wrote a nice post on forgiveness. Meditate and find your calm center and go from there.Β