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The Batman · 4/15/2016 5:27 pm

Hello all! Just wanted to get your opinion on things. Like most of you, I did this whole LOA voodoo, magic, miracle work, or whatever you want to call it, "thing" last year to get a former lover back into my life. Put lot of time and effort into, and decided to finally let go back in November of last year. Got tired and figured that was the "easier" way to acquire my love. Since then, I've cared less and less about reconciliation, and have genuinely moved on and been with other people since then. I don't expect to ever see her again, but at the same time, I get signs every single day, particular all the dates pertaining to us, i.e., the date we met, the day we first reconciled, her birthdate, and even the day we broke up, occasionally (oddly enough), not. I've even prayed on multiple occasions (not so much anymore) for the universe to stop doing that if she wasn't returning, and after all I went through last year, and the amount of time it's been, there's not a bone in my body that buys into this anymore. Not that it really matters, but I feel like the universe is really screwing with me, and while I don't really care either way at this point (more of an annoyance than anything else), I'd prefer if whatever is up there would stop this madness. So what do you think? Is this paranoia (cause I can be a paranoid individual) justified? Or is there more to this than meets the eye, and by some magical force this will lead to her actual manifestation? I find the latter EXTREMELY hard to believe, but what the hell do I know, at this point? Haha.

LaughBella14 · 4/15/2016 5:47 pm

I'm actually really interested in someone answering you! I had an ex I tried to manifest for 8 months once, & even when I gave up & fell in love with someone else, that ex didn't come back then. It wasn't until a few years later that he actually came back. So I'm really interested when people do let go and give up and move on but their person still doesn't show up, & why that happens!

ShootingStar · 4/15/2016 7:43 pm

Honestly, I am very conflicted about the whole LOA thing, there are times when things happen that are just literally crazy and make me fully fully believe in it. For example, I was smoking on the street and decided to fill myself full of love and be all vibrant with happiness and love but I wasn't even really smiling and a man walked ACROSS the street to tell me that there was 'something so magical' about me he just 'had' to say hi. I wasn't even nicely dressed. It was too weird...the same thing has happened to me on a few occasions, when I decide to fill myself up with the love vibe but not express it and I would get attention so randomly. Something was going on there...In terms of attracting back exs, it does make me wonder, if it was true, why my father never came back to my mother who hoped he would for years and has let go of him now but he still never manifested in her life in any way, he won't speak to her 17 years on. I would say to The Batman that you haven't let her go at all. I can't remember dates of things you can, and I still am very attached to my outcome! God I can barely remember his birthday haha. You're noticing these things because the universe is saying, 'you think you've let go? well...you haven't' Also your resisting your belief, you definitely do believe in the universe having direct contact or action in your life as you think that the universe is giving you these signs, most non-loa believers wouldn't believe in a higher power, they'd believe in coincidences but also, again, wouldn't even really notice these little things you do. If you don't believe in voodoo, voodoo won't effect you. You believe in LOA, you need to see what you're being shown, you need to let go and stop lying to yourself, you need to start putting those dates information you have stored up in your head to the back until they get deleted by new information. You're connected to the past too much.

ShootingStar · 4/15/2016 7:48 pm

LaughBella14 ...it appears that in LOA there really isn't a time frame unfortunately I wish my ex person was back now, but he might come back in like 3 years but by then I'll probably be in love with someone else...so bittersweet..I hope it's not the case! The fact is, your one did still come back though to be fair.

The Batman · 4/16/2016 3:19 pm

ShootingStar wrote:
Honestly, I am very conflicted about the whole LOA thing, there are times when things happen that are just literally crazy and make me fully fully believe in it. For example, I was smoking on the street and decided to fill myself full of love and be all vibrant with happiness and love but I wasn't even really smiling and a man walked ACROSS the street to tell me that there was 'something so magical' about me he just 'had' to say hi. I wasn't even nicely dressed. It was too weird...the same thing has happened to me on a few occasions, when I decide to fill myself up with the love vibe but not express it and I would get attention so randomly. Something was going on there...In terms of attracting back exs, it does make me wonder, if it was true, why my father never came back to my mother who hoped he would for years and has let go of him now but he still never manifested in her life in any way, he won't speak to her 17 years on. I would say to The Batman that you haven't let her go at all. I can't remember dates of things you can, and I still am very attached to my outcome! God I can barely remember his birthday haha. You're noticing these things because the universe is saying, 'you think you've let go? well...you haven't' Also your resisting your belief, you definitely do believe in the universe having direct contact or action in your life as you think that the universe is giving you these signs, most non-loa believers wouldn't believe in a higher power, they'd believe in coincidences but also, again, wouldn't even really notice these little things you do. If you don't believe in voodoo, voodoo won't effect you. You believe in LOA, you need to see what you're being shown, you need to let go and stop lying to yourself, you need to start putting those dates information you have stored up in your head to the back until they get deleted by new information. You're connected to the past too much.

So I'm cursed by these numbers and other occurrences until they just disappear, if ever. That sounds fun! Haha. I did a ton of subconscious work last year, so that would make sense of the whole fully not letting go thing. How you do that, exactly? I have no clue. Don't even think about her much, consciously, but apparently, my subconscious is doing its on thing. I'll just ignore anything pertaining to her as best I can (which is kind of what I've been doing.)

ShootingStar · 4/16/2016 6:05 pm

Well, I mean I can't remember things so clearly like the day we first met or the day we got back together, as I said, I can just about remember his birthday and even if I saw the number of his full birthday on a wall , 18111992 I would not even register it was his birthday haha. I don't connect things with him anymore, like songs he showed me, I hear them now and just recognise the songs without thinking 'oh he showed me this one day' and they don't leap out at me and cause me any emotion or annoyance of hearing them. I found, the way I sort of stopped getting hung up over the little things that reminded me of him was to actually just allow the emotion to pass through me and to name the emotion and if I want to cry, to cry or if I want 10 minutes by myself sitting in a toilet cubicle gathering myself together, to do it. Then one day you just feel the need to do that less and less. Let go of the resistance by allowing the negative emotions to come and flow through and then pass. So if you're out and you see a number that reminds you of her, just stop, feel the emotion, feel where it is in your body, allow yourself to release it...maybe cry, kick a wall, squeeze a soft ball, allow the energy to flow out of you and then do something you like, like watch a youtube video that makes you smile or watch an animal or taste something you enjoy or work out...and then gradually you will be less effected naturally. There's no point trying to resist the negativity by trying to tell yourself you're over her or moved on and getting angry at the universe or at loa, you need to release your energy and also feel compassion for yourself, allow yourself to feel a bit sad so that you can feel happy again faster

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