Wow! What a simple and straight to the point post! I really enjoyed reading this.. exactly what I needed to hear. Thank you for sharing!

confused1077, if you've been "chasing" this for 2 years and still aren't getting the results you want than that means you need to change something in your vibration. Start by changing the story. Start by no longer saying "chasing". Say you're a CREATOR, and you GET EVERYTHING YOU WANT. 

Perhaps you're trying too hard? It's not about giving up, it's about loosening your grip and easing up a little bit. This shouldn't be difficult. It should be easy and relaxing. I don't know your entire story--can you elaborate and I will do my best to help?

Either way, just keep believing!!!

Confused1077 ...Girl, you're in a really bad place emotionally, I've been there, but read over what you wrote and pretend you're not you but you're your best friend. If I was your best friend, I would tell you to get out of that little bubble he has you tied into. I've been there too, trust me and a year later and out of that bubble I've grown a lot as a person and I am a lot happier than I was when I was just non stop worried and panicky and upset and felt like a rag doll so unsure of what was going on and doing everything to keep my boyfriend. You're probably a very pretty girl, all girls are pretty, but he's clearly very attracted to you and you should use that to your benefit. It's your emotional place that's pulling you down. Swap the story around, instead of him sleeping with you and then leaving and going on a date, think, damn he's being really stupid right now to leave me, a really cool girl who loves him, but maybe it's ok for now because I'm not in a good place and my vibe was all over the shop so I need to actually build myself up. Tell him in a lovely way how you think it's for the best you part ways and that you need to do some soul searching anyway because you're currently not the girl you know you should be...and p.s lets just not be friends it's totally cool by saying that, he can't be negative about you! his resistance will go down so much and when he thinks about you, he won't think of a needy, upset and emotional girl, he'll think of a girl who has amazing self awareness that she sees she's not in the best place and wants to fix it herself and DOESN'T NEED him. That's going to take down his ego a peg. The next step is being super strong and following through, including deleting him on facebook and acting like you genuinely want to move on. Listen to encouraging songs every day, do little things to get you started, like getting a new hair cut, new clothes, the usual. Read about sexy strong women of the past including Cleopatra, Audrey Hepburn, Angelina Jolie...start to emulate women you admire. Start to become the woman you wanted to be when you were a little girl and do it for you. Do all these things and you'll start to notice the difference and you'll look back on comments like the one you just made and be really surprised at how you would just never be in that situation again because you have so much more self love and know your worth. That will be the day this guy reappears and says something like 'wow you look amazing' because you'll be so radiant and he'll be so drawn and then you can decide whether or not you want him, not the other way round ;)