This came up on my home page on youtube today, I haven't watched any of these ex back videos in so long because they just sounded like manipulation and were always trying to sell products so I didn't bother...but this one is just a youtube girl and I decided to watch it because I had a good feeling about it and it is actually such a good video in terms of getting into a new state of thinking, aka not desperate, and also at the end she gives solid advice on the actual best way to get someone to come back and it is basically loa. I really reccommend people on here watch it, especially people who , like me, are still sometimes a little bit desperate in our ways of thinking about this person!