- confused1077
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Re: no judgement just help please I am really having a difficult time
are you saying that i shouldnt want him back or its impossible to get him back? I know I need to get rid of the resistance but I dont know what you are saying on if you think it is impossible?
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Re: no judgement just help please I am really having a difficult time
Everythingisbeautiful wrote:
When you have a hard time believing in something, you have to take a break and focus on yourself. Fall in love with yourself. Recognize the goddess in you and admire the person that you are. Once you really love yourself, you will not doubt his feelings. Seriously. And your mind will show you instances that he has shown you that he cares and you'll believe it. And he will come running back.
When you are laser focused on him and feeling the resistance, step back and focus on you. You first, him second. Loving yourself and focusing on your happiness and peace is the key to allowing.
what you said makes perfect sense. Do you guys think it is impossible? I mean him and this girl are liking everything its hard to get on facebook because i have been friends with her too...part of me thinks I am being nuts...
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Re: no judgement just help please I am really having a difficult time
It doesn't matter what ANYBODY thinks. Even if we ALL told you not to worry, it's totally doable, you won't get what you are wanting because your vibration is one of lack and doubt and desperation. You have to understand that YOU are a creator. You're creating your life right now, and what you live tomorrow will be entirely based on what you truly believe today. So, if you want to succeed you MUST find your way to believing.
If you imagine it in your mind..
Believe it in your heart..
Feel it in your soul..
You will hold it in your hand 💞
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Stop focusing on the current reality. You are repeating the same story. Create your love story. Focus on your happiness. Put yourself on the pedestal. Not him. Focus on Gym, career, friends, etc. Stop thinking about this girl. Nothing is impossible. Yeah you can have what you want but you can't focus on the current reality or this story you're telling yourself and micromanage it. Let go a little and get yourself into a better feeling place. Have faith. This does work but you must focus on you and not feel the lack you're feeling now. Unfollow or unfriend both of them if you have to. good luck!
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my grandma passed away last week and he didnt seem to care and we were together 4 years nor does he care how i am doing.
I am going to go shopping today. I also am in contact with Veronica and I m reading. The beginning is so hard.
I want to say thank you everyone so far. I really appreciate it. It has been so hard recently
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Confused1077,i am ofcourse not the best one to advice you,but i think take some time off..like for 30 days or so,till the time you don't feel happy with yourself, till the time you know not what sadness is,what desperation is..just do whatever you love to do,to feel happy.. to feel fulfilled..
And with all a clear mind,soul and heart try Veronica s 25 day challenge, just as any game that you liked to play in your childhood, without worrying about the outcome!
You will succeed for your! But don't try to be happy to get your love back,try to be happy to get yourself back!!
And please don't contact him all this while!
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You HAVE to stop dwelling on the bad stuff!!! Do you realise that right here in this thread, you are affirming the lack of your relationship? As in, you are literally doing affirmations about staying broken up. What you're writing here is like you're doing a scripting exercise, with the goal of never getting him back. And you're doing well at it - you're detailed and very emotive in what you're describing, and persistent. That is exactly how you should script to manifest something! And yet you insist on scripting about lack.
Honestly, you DO have the mental control within you to manifest the things you want. We all do, it's how we were designed. You CAN do this!!
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Thanks guys, I will take this advice to heart. I feel calmer today. Like a I dont care attitude. That is good right? Like I m just here
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Guys does it doesnt matter how long you have been apart right? The last time I was really in a relationship with him was 2013. Also everyone is absolutely against us being together they want us to move on. How do I not let that hinder me?
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thanks I just wondered because everyone I have seen have been broken up for about a month or up to a year. Anyone here been broken up longer then that? I also unfollowed him
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