ShootingStar wrote:

LaughBella14 , I just read what you said about your situation and I thought about a situation I had that was similar last year. My person and I broke up and within 2 weeks he was officially with this other girl in our town who's known for being one of the town's biggest catches, everyone loves her. So he shut me out completely, told me to stop texting him, stop going to his gigs because the new girl was feeling upset about the fact that I was around sometimes. He was what you would call...swept off his feet....he definitely felt like he was punching above his weight, he didn't want to lose this girl. I knew, however, that he was in love with the idea of her but really in love with me. I was so certain this was the case that I got inspired action to write him a letter where I was vulnerable but not too emotional, sweet and feminine and I wanted to show him how much I appreciated him and valued him. He read the letter, I got no reply, but two weeks later we ran into each other and the run in began with him being cold and me being confused and ended with us sleeping together and getting back together haha. In that case, because I knew I had nothing to lose by telling him (in a non desperate way) how I felt and showing him how I really loved the real him in ways I didn't show him before (I'm closed off) that it was a good inspired action. I would say that perhaps in your situation , you should meditate on this problem and then you might receive an idea for inspired action too I personally don't believe loa is just about being passive, I do believe in there being a good mix of action. Abraham apparently got Jerry when she wrote him a letter before he was due to get married that he shouldn't get married to that person but should get married to her (or something like this I read somewhere!)

Also, your story is very interesting. How do I meditate on inspired action?? & do you know where I can find that story on Esther & Jerry hicks??