I like to follow the techniques of Neville Goddard in that I prefer to see what I want as already a done deal, and it's just a matter of time before it manifest on the physical. That being said, if you were already back with your love, would you be worried about contact/no contact, texting, calling, etc? No, you would not. You would be enjoying the relationship as you focus on your future together as a couple. So my suggestion would be start seeing you and your love as already being together and loving and enjoying each other. Once you get into that state and LIVE in that state as your current reality, you will see results.