Keep your fck it attitude going. I promise it is what got her to you and it will be what continues to attract her back to you.  

Elm88... just keep on giving it a ****..😂
And just keep calm..stay composed..
And come on.....why jealous....???! We are the masters of our situations... aren't we??? We are LOA practitioners...!! We can change everything in our favour..!
Just don't focus on the fact that your girl is still in contact with her somewhat boyfriend still now!
Just believe that they are not in contact... just believe your girl doesn't want to keep contact with him... and you can also visualize hearing your girl say that she is not going to that music concert!

Ill tell you why it happens. Because you build this positive momentum, feeling strong and powerfully deliberate in your creating. And THEN you actually begin to create what you wanted. And the second your reality begins to shift into your desired outcome you throw yourself back into creating by default. That's why it's so important to reach for happiness with yourself. Constantly reach towards better feelings. If you put your focus back onto something that's changing, it will likely slow the progress. Remember, this is a process that takes time to change. Your love can't suddenly wake up one morning in love with you in your bed. That's what is GOING to happen, but it can't logically play out that way- that's just awkward. Trust that it's playing out perfectly, and she will continue to match the expectations you are holding. Where are your thoughts? In doubt? Worry? Or are they purely focused on an incredible outcome?

LoveIsGod wrote:

Elm88..yes don't initiate contact...but that should be ok with you..i meAn you should not fight with your desire of contacting her..take it easy...stay so much focused,so much busy,and so much happy with yourself that you get no to focus on others..! Did you ever get so confused that you should contact your so-aNd-so friend or not? No..right? Because you take It casually???? So why should you bother with this girl?
Remember "I" am the most important person..and no one else... here we all are trying to get back our man/lady because again the person "I" feel happy with them, the person "I" love them.... so stay busy with yourself.. not others!

And Cherished is an advanced practitioner.. she has give her valued suggestions..follow them..

 
Thank you LoveIsGod. I guess when it comes to ourseleves we do not really know what to do and we still need 0ther people to guide us, even though we already know what to do if we were to have to advice other people.

I think at this point you may be having to utilize some pyschology methods as well as loa. Keep you're attitude of being detached but playfully curious/amused at what has happened but also understand that your mystery is what is also alluring to her. I would keep building up yourself, go do activities, go out with friends, do the things you would be doing if you were newly single, except I wouldn't kiss anyone else, but no harm in flirting. Let her do most of the work, that's what adds to your value, if you start initiating contact, she will automatically presume you're needy and want her badly again, the best thing to do is to initiate maybe for every 3 times she does, so you won't totally look uninterested either. As for your jealousy, I really encourage meditating! Then you can start to really dig deep about how yo feel and allow yourself to feel it so it's ok but also get over it on time for you to come into the situation of talking with her from a good footing. Jealousy is not attractive after a break up, definitely not, but very understandable. You may actually need a bit more time before you talk to her, going snails paced slow seems to be the best decision for you.