– if you focus on his negativity, and this situation; you will bring more things you don’t want. This can cause his hate to flip to indifference, basically leaving him with no feelings towards you, not caring at all about you, and essentially you are out of the picture.


My only objection to this point is.. It really doesn't matter if he flips to indifference or not. IF that were the case and he did become indifferent, that doesn't mean that it would then be a hopeless situation. I'm just learning and from what I've gathered thus far is there is no hopeless situation, no matter how bad it is in this moment. So just because someone is indifferent doesn't mean that I can't still create what I want.

SydneysMommy wrote:

Guys this isn't working in my favor at all. Today I drop my baby off at his parents since they switched with my mom.

He calls me immediately to argue about taking advantage of them and that his ex does the same and that his money is low due to having 2 kids and that he is going to reblock me to prove that I'm not worth his time since I didn't give him a choice at being a dad again...

This is crushing because he has been coming around on his own, we just had a lunch date on Tuesday...on his own, and yesterday he unblocked me OWN HIS OWN to get me to call him because I had a bad day at work. Then this morning he looses it...he hates me, he literally hates the idea of a future with me and our kid. It all just feel right back apart...I didn't stop visualizing...I came here for support..,i kept titan and didn't smother...I used every method...and he came back just to leave for the same reason, he doesn't want me anymore...he doesn't want our family anymore...he even threatened to leave town just to be away from us...and hung up the phone in me just as he has done in the past...I'm crying my face off right now...so hopeless, so hurt..so devestated. And I can't even see what alignment even means right now...I didn't manifest this...it was the furthered thing from my mind...honestly I had no idea this was going to happen.

 
I appreciate that this is a upsetting situation for you, but if you were to take a step back or even read what you have written it is clear that the outburst he had was his own issues and frustrations being directed at what was the easiest target at that time, which happened to be you.

Sometimes things really have nothing to do with you. Think about times when you have shouted or lashed out at someone, at the core of that anger was your own issue which you transfered to that person.

I think you not seeing this as simply him have a diva moment, is because you placing a meaning and attachment to every interaction you have with him. Not everything is a direct like for like manifestation of your vibration. And being in alignment doesn't guarantee that crappy events won't show up in your life. But what it does allow you do is not allow crappy moments to affect you because you know its just something you have to pass through.

Focus on yourself. Send him love. Allow this event to see that he is hurting and needs space and love to be where he needs to be and get back to focusing on yourself and building yourself.

Remember any reaction you have to a situation is a reflection of your inner state and not a reflection of the intensity of the situation itself. You could just have easily brushed this situation of and said "oh he's in a bad mood, no need to take out on me. Anyway onwards and upwards." 

Take care

Totally hugging you guys right now!