MIS wrote:

Good day all you deliberate creators,

I ''m still not getting something right- If I want something, in this instance, my love, I should keep myself in alignment, keeping the vibes high etc, and not focus on the absence of him. But when we are visualizing/acting as if, does that mean that we are also focusing on absence, although it might not be desperate/needy?

Thanks!

Letting go and act as if are not connected. Letting go is just one way. On this forum is 300 people or more what is very great. Some people read this book, other read other book and we talk about method which is closer to us, but this don't mean that it is perfect for someone else. So choose one method and stick with this method.

LETTING GO - use this method if you can't have more then 51% of thinking time on positive way. If you think about your desire only on positive way (without negative toughts) then you are on highway to heaven (fullfilment of your desire), if you think about you desires with some positive and some negative toughts then you are on side road to heaven. Still on road but much more slower. Lettin go ( you send God your desire and forget about desire or you don't think much about desire, cause you know that it will be fullfilment) put you on highway with some speed of light to heaven. But this is not easy to achive. Sorry our brains don't work this way, until we haven't few manifestation. 

ACT AS IF: this method contains a lot of other methods. Visualization, positive thinking, makeing some room, talk with them, prepare for something etc...

But if you look bigger picture what do you see? what all this method do to you? They reprogram your minde. And what new program do to you? It makes you thinking different, better that is all. So do whatever you need to trick your brains, your subconscious mind, that your desire is already fullfilment. There is a lot of methods to do this. For me letting go is a method which is used by LOA master, who have some great experience. For begginers and advance users positive thinking and or act as if is better.

Don't worrie to much about how, where, when, with witch method is better, if i can combine this or that method it will be faster, it will be slower, this author said this or that, this method is the best, thoose lines don't go together etc... If you think about this then you don't trust God or universe or whatever you call. To be clearer: You get ther recipe for some cake. Do you ask yourself why is flour insde, why there is cup of milk, why not two cups of milk, do i must mix from left to right or on other way.. etc.. No you just follow the recipe and you trust that you will make some cake. 

Here is same story.

I have few friends which are my "student" and i see that all have same problems at the start. I had to. LOA is easy when you have full faith, and when you have full faith your desire come in no time. It is like magic. For example i had funny time with LOA. Few weeks ago i was forced to control my toughts about coffe. Why? I love good coffe and i think about cup of coffe i get one or more in few minutes. I work in eldery home and there is a coffe shop. One day i was late at morning so i didn't drink my morning coffe at home. When i star my job, i think about coffe. Guess what? in next 10 minutes my boss (she chaned a lot cause a use gratitude on her :D) invite me on coffe with my words. She said same words which i use when i think about coffe :D :D. Next day i sleep bad so i need one more coffe. I come to my job, think about coffe and then see that my wallet is in my car, so i said let's use LOA. One our latter i pass by coffe shop and waitress said to me: " our clients, did buy you a coffe, they pay three coffes in advance for you"  :D :D :D :D :D  See LOA works very fast if you let go, but when your feelings are attached to outcome (get specific person) it is not so easy do use LETTING go method. I manifaste a lot of things with letting go, but they was just things which i easly did't care if i get them or not.

My favorite lines from my favorite author are: LIVING IN THE END OF STORY.