Ok guys. With the situation with my love, I'm a lot better than I was in say November.  I mean I'm even better than I was a month ago.    I might not have her as "mine" yet   But we do talk at least once a week, I don't really worry about how often we talk or how long we talk anymore    But I do feel like I could use more work.    Even though she always replies, I notice I'm usually  the one who initiates the convos.   


My question is.  Should I step back a little and let her come to me?  I feel, even though I've lost a lot of resistance. That there's still some resistance that is holding me back, because if there was none, I feel I would have her by now.    It doesn't really stress me or anything.   Just looking for something outside opinions



Also. A little off topic.    I met this girl a month ago, that basically has the same nickname as my love, I honestly don't think this is a coincidence