THIS is an awesome post, there is a video I listened to JUST today by Abraham Hick on a guy wanting his manipulative ex out his life.


The point of the video was you NEVER get anything out your life because YOU manifest everything. What ever you focus on...its affect is always there. So if your focus is her fairness and judgement, guess what's hanging around.

The video suggests, manifesting a life where the person exsists but your focus isn't on her actions particularly but your mood toward LEAVING her actions as her and hold it for 17 seconds and concentrate on what YOU need out of it and it's her to heal...

The positive way about it at times takes action...you know suggesting a convo asking her specifically in all innocence why you absorb so much of her free time...but you already know why...because it still bothers you...she is a part of a path we don't determine but you CAN influence her by redirecting your own thinking to bettering you instead of thinkin of her actions. Once the universe feels your intent, how on earth would she continue to focus on you when you'll be an obvious super diva without any interest in her pain to hold on to the nonsense.

Google Abraham hicks want ex girlfriend gone...it was so good!

Good luck, it's hard but you are in a prison already there, but you got the keys..USE THEM and get I'm trapped from HER bad choices by removing yourself and wishing her well.