Oasiscalm wrote:

You are not trying to get the feeling of being with him specifically. You are aiming for the general feeling of love, happiness and contentment.

The objective is to get these feelings to be your baseline state. You need to be happy within yourself. You shouldn't look to another person to be the source of your happiness.

Your internal state of happiness needs to built on a solid foundation. When you look to others to ingnite your happiness you are vulnerable and never secure.

Yes I understand all of this.. However just like many others here I have continually seen it said to feel like you already have him, to act as if you are already with him, feel the feelings of having the relationship with your guys now.. Etc. so that is why I asked the question

iinikkii wrote:

Another question.. Hehe.. What is she refering to when she says "cooperative components"

 
That just means all the "stuff" that has to happen to bring it about. All the people that need to do things or make decisions or allow something to occur will step up and do so quickly and efficiently! Cooperative components 😊

No such thing as a dumb question 😘 It's wonderful that you're connecting all the dots.

Last edited by Cherished (3/21/2016 10:37 pm)