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Hi lovely members
I haven't been on here much recently due to work.
I have been out with my guy a few times recently and he's been really nice, although it's not serious yet.
Anyway out of nowhere this woman, (V.attractive ) from his work is commenting on everything he posts on social media. I see her name popping up all the time on his wall. It's throwing me out of alignment.
So now am I not to focus on her and presume it's innocent and not to putย energy on her, right??
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Last edited by Cheer (3/22/2016 10:59 am)
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Visualize that she likes someone else etc or just ignore it remember if you focus on her and him you will only attract more of it.
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I know this has been said a million times before, but the way to manifest what you want is to feel good and relax. It doesn't do any good to worry about other women, or to worry about anything for that matter. The only benefit of worrying is that it provides information as to why you are out of alignment and why your vibration is low. So get it back up, feel empowered, and know that you create everything in your life -- "good" or "bad."
Also, realize that if your guy is an attractive person (and I am assuming he is), other attractive people will naturally want his attention. But don't worry about what anyone else does. Liking posts and photos is harmless. Seriously. It doesn't matter at all. If you know you're amazing and are a catch, he's going to choose you over any other woman. And if he doesn't, and he chooses someone else, then you weren't in alignment with him and the Universe has someone else in mind who is in alignment with you.
The manifestation process is fun! So have fun! Enjoy the process! Don't worry about anything at all. Sometimes, this is easier said than done. But know that you can create the reality you desire, no matter what. You know you're in alignment with the right person when you no longer worry and you actually let go, relax, and have fun.
You got this!
--Justin
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Thank you so muchย for your replies : )
Yep he's very attractive and I guess there are always going to be other women flirting with him.
I do struggle with my confidence believing that he would choose me over any other woman, I do want to believe it.
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Cheer wrote:
Thank you so muchย for your replies : )
Yep he's very attractive and I guess there are always going to be other women flirting with him.
I do struggle with my confidence believing that he would choose me over any other woman, I do want to believe it.
Not a problem.
Be confident. He's hanging out with you now because of your current alignment. It always, always comes down to your alignment. So don't let it slip. Stay happy and confident. Rock his world. Know you are the best he can have. Feel the power. Embrace it.
And like I said, if he chooses someone else, just know it's because you were out of alignment with him and are in alignment with someone else. A much better vibrational match. It shouldn't be a struggle. You should just feel it and know.
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Thanks Justin, you have cheered me up lots : )
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If you had the ability to attract him in the first place then you were attractive to him! But understand that it actually has very little to do with looks and EVERYTHING to do with vibration. And worrying about others being attractive is a lower vibe. That's where your work is honey! It's ALWAYS going to come down to self love.
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Thanks Cherished ย I'm feeling much better today
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Cherished wrote:
If you had the ability to attract him in the first place then you were attractive to him! But understand that it actually has very little to do with looks and EVERYTHING to do with vibration. And worrying about others being attractive is a lower vibe. That's where your work is honey! It's ALWAYS going to come down to self love.
& if he has already chose someone else we can still have them back right
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LovelyinK wrote:
Cherished wrote:
If you had the ability to attract him in the first place then you were attractive to him! But understand that it actually has very little to do with looks and EVERYTHING to do with vibration. And worrying about others being attractive is a lower vibe. That's where your work is honey! It's ALWAYS going to come down to self love.
& if he has already chose someone else we can still have them back right
Yes I believe you can. Taking the same advice that was given to me,self love, vibrate in love and know that he is yours.