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RS/SEX/ Did I ruin it?
So I wondered, if having sex with ex ruins chances on true reuniting. Rs works because either we are just sexually frustrated or he wanted the panties.
I have in, had sex now sort of regretting it because I haven't heard from him...is it possible it was a fleeting need? Anyone experienced this? Any advice...wanna stay outta me head, but definitely don't wanna make mistakes either.
He did cancel plans to reschedule, and his conversation the ext day was pretty short. But he did add me back to his Netflix account and asked can we all ( our daughters) hook up this weekend...that kinda made me feel like the sex wasn't a good idea.
We are a family finally, there's nothing more beautiful than that.
- iinikkii
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Re: RS/SEX/ Did I ruin it?
I don't think it ruins your chances at all. I'm still learning and I'm definitely not a guru at this ( yet) but I would say to just enjoy it for what it was. Don't put too much thought into it. Ok you had sex.. and it was something you wanted and you got it! No it's not the whole package yet but you DID want to have sex with him and obviously he DID want to have sex with you. Some may disagree with me.. But just think about how happy you are that you did get it, think about how good it was and how good you felt KNOWING that he WANTED you too! Don't start thinking about why he's not do this or that, just embrace what has happened and KNOW that everything is well on the way.
I'm not saying let yourself be used, not at all.. But also don't start feeling like you did something wrong.. It was something you wanted at the time and you made it happen! So now just continue as you were before this happened and I'm sure the ball will continue to roll in your favor
- SydneysMommy
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Re: RS/SEX/ Did I ruin it?
Thank you, I have totally been seeing small miracles here and I was totally feeling like oh no he is going to only wanna have sex with me.
I am going to continue feeling good about it. Thank you for yhat bit of information, buti do think ill keep that to a minimum, i dont want to get into the cycle of thinking we are just friends with benefits.
We are a family finally, there's nothing more beautiful than that.
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Re: RS/SEX/ Did I ruin it?
If you don't want to create it, don't put it out there. Remember, you create it all with your thoughts.
If you imagine it in your mind..
Believe it in your heart..
Feel it in your soul..
You will hold it in your hand 💞
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