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I did it and it worked!!!! 8 days in he texted me just like I had envisioned. Thank you Veronica!!
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beau65 wrote:
I did it and it worked!!!! 8 days in he texted me just like I had envisioned. Thank you Veronica!!
YAY!!!! That's awesome!!! Great news!!
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beau65 wrote:
I did it and it worked!!!! 8 days in he texted me just like I had envisioned. Thank you Veronica!!
You said you had been split up for 3 months..were you in no contact during this time or still in contact?
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I had been emailing and texting with him and it had made it worse. So I began no contact and started changing my thoughts. The last time we emailed was on March 1st. I had told him at that point when he was ready to speak, I would be there. I heard from him 18 days later. I do believe in no contact. I believe in what Veronica has been saying also. He needs space and I need to trust that the Universe is doing the job. I had been confused because I had broken it off with him in a fight. I hadn't taken it seriously. He had. And when I called a few days later to talk, he was in no way open to speaking with me. Hence the few months of emails and texts. Much more would have been accomplished had we not communicated. We have both grown in this time tremendously. I hope that helps.
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Wow, that is so good to know. I'm glad things worked out and you learned some things to make your relationship better. It's tough but you are right, we need to trust that the Universe is working things out for our good. Very happy for you, thanks for sharing your story.
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I'm in!
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I am 7 days into the challenge and have learned so much, my question is how to act around my wife (ex)? We have four kids together and all are in sports and activities, I would normally sit with her, talk, flirt, touch and kiss her, as she would allow me too, but she seemed like she was just going along with it and didn't mind. It's been three years and she is still seeing the guy she was having an affair with and divorced me for him. We don't talk at all, so pretty much no contact as per her establishment. So how should I act or be knowing we will see each other at our kids events? Some guidance would be great!
I know my wife and I will be together and a family again! Your support and blessings are much appreciated.
Thanks
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Don't act any way.. Just be. 😊 But be confident in yourself. Start to do some work on yourself. Think of all the reasons you are amazing. Start to see yourself as the prize-not her. If you do that, you energetically flip the coin. And she will become very attracted to that. Certainly be nice, but maintain a distance and trust that she will feel your new confidence and be drawn to you.
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Cherished wrote:
Don't act any way.. Just be. 😊 But be confident in yourself. Start to do some work on yourself. Think of all the reasons you are amazing. Start to see yourself as the prize-not her. If you do that, you energetically flip the coin. And she will become very attracted to that. Certainly be nice, but maintain a distance and trust that she will feel your new confidence and be drawn to you.
As always Cherished thank you 😘🌺
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Cherished wrote:
Don't act any way.. Just be. 😊 But be confident in yourself. Start to do some work on yourself. Think of all the reasons you are amazing. Start to see yourself as the prize-not her. If you do that, you energetically flip the coin. And she will become very attracted to that. Certainly be nice, but maintain a distance and trust that she will feel your new confidence and be drawn to you.
Thanks Cherished, your always very inspirational!