I may have to agree with Nikki here..I think Nikki is hearing from these answers that the universe is saying, "well yes I hear what you want, but I'm deciding no for you, it's not what you really think you want." and thus that sort of sounds like we actually don't get to decide, the universe does instead?

No, that's not accurate. The universe doesn't decide at all. YOU decide. But then you have to line up with that energetic vibration. It's not possible to attract the absolute most incredible relationship if you're sitting all day freaking out about who controls what. You do. You create your life. If you are purely streaming love and adoration to another person, I PROMISE PROMISE PROMISE YOU that no matter where they are or what they are doing, they will feel it and it will attract them into your life. So if you get yourself to that vibe, back he comes.

The girl in the clip is not purely streaming love. She's resisting him coming, by not ALLOWING IT. If she could ease up and just enjoy the journey, he would appear.

Just to add..  Have you ever had the experience where an ex has come back and you thought.. ummmm.. he's not really that great at all..? Your vibe has basically "outgrown" them. You will attract them, but you won't necessarily enjoy the manifestation anymore. Or you might be unable to purge your mind of past hurts. So you hold too much resistance still, and they still display those "same" old patterns. That is simply you and your continued focus on what was.

At the end of the day, it won't do you any good to listen to those kind of relationship clips from OUT of your alignment. You won't hear the positives, you'll pick at it from a misaligned state. Better to get off the topic and allow something easier to guide you into alignment. And THEN focus on your relationship. 😘

I hope that made just as much sense to you Nikki!!!!!

I'm so glad that it's resonating with you. Sometimes it just takes a simple shift in perspective to change your entire outlook. Be kind to yourselves, this is a very different way of thinking than we have all ever known. And you slip so subtly at times it is hard to consciously be aware of the drop in vibe. By the time you realise what's happening, you already have some negative momentum going.. And that vibe is much easier to fall into than deliberately focussing upwards. If I'm not feeling fabulous, I immediately repeat out loud the thoughts I'm having in my head. Then I either laugh at them, or calmly say delete. That in itself is enough to swing me back to neutral. Something else- my inner being is always looking through the eyes of love. At everything and everyone. If I feel off, it's because I'm not thinking in an aligned way. Remember, in your alignment, all your dreams come true! So do the work to get there! So what would I NEED TO THINK to feel better? Go to those thoughts as much as you can remember to do so. It takes practice, but I promise you it's worth it. 💜🌈

Last edited by Cherished (3/19/2016 1:07 am)

If you know that it already works for small stuff, you at least are off to a good start! And LOA might not be for you as you say, but LOA is running your life whether you like it or not. It's not simply a function you can switch on or of to facilitate your manifesting. You are ALWAYS manifesting. And you're currently sitting in doubt. So you just create by default and allow LOA to bring you more to doubt. That's ok, but in order to propel yourself into a higher vibration deliberately, there are many things you can do. More reading to solidify your LOA understanding. More meditation. More appreciation practice. Affirmations. All of those things help to lift your spirits. And in doing so, you can then access better feelings. You can't reach faith because you are vibing too low. So it feels crap. You have to start to slowly build a positive momentum, that will pull you up into hope and faith.