Milk&Honey wrote:

I have attracted someone many times, but it is difficult for me to keep him close to me because I haven't cleaned up my subconscious mind. There are doubts and fear. It is easy for me to attract him, but the point is to keep him. 

What is the most effective way to you to attract a person?

Milk&Honey wrote:

Detach from what is/Stop observing current reality. Let it be, don't try to fix it. Just let it be, take your focus off of it and focus on what you want (this what they manage to do, when they give up and they say "f88k it , it will never come"). They have stopped trying to fix it and have stopped thinking and observing the problem.

Remove doubts
Believe in yourself
Be the person who already has them/new person
Behave like he/she is already here

 
Many times I wanna tell myself fck it and move on, but im afraid im sending the signal to the universe saying that i do not want it anymore. What are your thoughts?